I'm concerned about myself. I'm 22 years old and never had much good luck. I never had a girlfriend, I broke out and matured when it was too late. I was so immature back in the day that no one wanted to hang with me and be my friend. One of the only friends I had left, my best friend, died last year in a car accident. Nobody hardly knows me. Everyone looks down on me since I don't ever get any girls at all. On a regular basis, I don't ever see anyone, and I almost never have anyone to really talk to as a real friend. VERY few people I have as friends, and I blame it on my immature ways in the past. I don't hardly know any girls at all to get serious with anyone. I feel like I'm always alone and by myself. This has been my everyday life for years. Nothing goes right, and I'm always viewed as the boy that can't get a girl, or don't want one, even tho i do. Meeting a girl on your own isn't always EZ when there r so many unfriendly girls. Am I at risk of going mentally crazy?
2007-06-09 12:01:56 · 3 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, you are just a bit lonely after your loss, and may suffer in the future a lot more from that. Sometimes I feel as if nobody likes me or I have no friends. But it doesn't have to be that way. I would try to make new friends before starting the girl search. Go out more, be yourself. Don't be afraid to talk to people. If people don't like you for who you are, it's their problem, not yours. Do you think your best friend would have wanted you to be lonely this way? Also, try visiting your relatives more, too. that will make you feel a lot less lonely. You will make friends eventually, and they will help you with your girl problem. Also, a lot of times the person right for you will come to you, not you find them. If you just open yourself up more and be yourself, you will meet people who love you, and you'll be saved from the road of depression. Also, don't get offended by this if you are nonreligious, you may be able to become happier in your life through religion, that helps some people, or travel. There will always be someone in the world who loves you. Best of luck!
2007-06-09 12:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by kammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep thinking this way, it is a possibility. Just think of it this way...with his WAY overused phrase; but it's true "that was then, this is now."
Meet new girls who don't know you. They will get to know the mature you, if you act that way.
2007-06-09 12:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going mentally crazy is not caused by this, so don't worry, you will find that girl, she is out there!
2007-06-09 12:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by fjerseyman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋