Over the past eight years or so my life has changed. I basically put everything on hold for my family and now that they have moved, I feel as if I am so far away from where I should be. I have lost myself, I don't even know myself anymore, and on top of it all I lost contact with my most of my friends. I feel so alone and lost. What should I do? I hate the way I am and long to live.
Serious answers only please :)
2007-06-09 09:42:38 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Idon'tknowanymore♥ 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
pray
trust me I know how you feel and I know how bad it hurts
2007-06-09 09:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional counselling to help you find who you are again. Get passionate about something. What are your talants and gifts?? Impower yourself, learn to love yourself, make contact with your friends or find some new friends, get out there in the world and make things happen for yourself. Don't feel sorry for yourself go on move it your life is waiting for you to start living it. It's always your choice, make the changes, you can do it!! just trust yourself.... : ) All the best.
2007-06-09 16:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This may sounds cheesy...But discover yourself! First find out what makes you happy and puts you in situations to socially thrive.
Make an effort to re-establish lost bonds with friends and people who made you happy. Just because your family is far away doesn't mean they are out of reach these days with all the convenient forms of communication.
The key is to not be alone, and then you, with the help of others, will find yourself.
Good luck in your future discoveries,
Lach
2007-06-09 16:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by lachlan m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry.
For your friends, what you should do is email your friends, saying that you're sorry that you haven't made any contact with them in awhile and hope that they will accept it, and then invite them out to dinner or something.
To know your self better or get back to where you knew yourself, you should go to a nice, quiet place and think about what changes you've gone threw and see which ones you like or don't like, and the changes you don't like, change them so that you will like them.
Hope that will help!
2007-06-09 16:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human life is impossible without God. We may search for answers, like Jona, but never find, what we really crave. Sometimes, God leads us on the road that is long, but helpful in finding Him. We find God not when we are satisfied with life, but when we are dissatisfied with it.
So, what you are going through is probably normal, and God is giving you a chance to discover something much better than everything you've known until now.
2007-06-09 16:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kalistrat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋