would u consider me fat........????
or that i need to lose more weight?
ppl tell me that'll i ll look better thiner 5 pounds less?
do u agree?
is it better being thin or plump?
thnks ur comments.
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2007-06-09 08:09:07 · 11 answers · asked by oceanblue-heart 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I am an ex-dancer (a.k.a. stripper), and according to all men: you are hot. You are not fat, you are thick.
What makes a person fat is laziness. The actual amount of fat on your body is close to the bone and there is muscle. You are what most people, and I, call thick. Thick is sexy. I am thick, and would NEVER be thin... ever. Thickness can be one of the most beautiful aspects of being feminine.
No guy wants a twig. No real man cares about looks, only self.
Plus, you carry your weight well. Now, some people aren't MEANT to have a higher fat density. Those people do not look proportional. (I'd say most white women of a northern descent such as Irish, Polish, etc.)
I think your body is just fine. YOU are your own worst critic. Stop looking at yourself and you will see one day that you have found who you really are: beautiful.
2007-06-09 08:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better even best to be healthy.... weather you look fat, plump, thin or whatever the numbers. Different people carry different bone structures....150 on me would look sickly but a 150 on someone who is 5 foot would look obese.
Most people would hear my numbers and tell me I'm overweight but I am completely healthy except for the fact that I smoke.
Numbers don't mean anything and being 5 pound lighter only allows you to fit into the same clothes you are wearing now in a size smaller (maybe - if that)
being shallow is less attractive than being fat
Added....
just looked at your picture..... in no way are you fat, change the way your clothes are hanging alittle and you are fine.All you have to do is adjust your clothing and the way you wear them thats all
2007-06-09 15:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by mommymanic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make? Are you healthy? That's all that matters.
Don't habng you opinion of yourself on how you look. It will be changing until you die.
Here is the truth about all this weight and looks stuff. It's all crap. The media people who try and tell everyone what is pretty and what is not only care about making money. They tell you that something is wrong with you and then they offer to sell you the thing that will fix you. It is completely out of hand.
If people can't accept you for who you are, then what good are they for you? If your friends family husband whoever can't look passed five pounds, what do you need them for. What difference does five pounds make?
2007-06-09 15:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not fat at all. Indeed you are at a very healthy size. Don't let yourself fall into that kind of trap of "if I lose just a couple more pounds I'll be more beautiful, oh just a couple more." It is very easy to let yourself go overboard. I think you are very beautiful just the way you are. The most important thing is how you feel about yourself not how others view you.
2007-06-09 15:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by MoonWater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i don`t consider you fat. look, ppl tell me to that i would look better thinner 5 pounds but it`s important what you think. if you agree with them than ok, but if not... i think that is better to be born as thin person cause you can if you want put some weight and thin people are`t obsessed with their weight all the time.
2007-06-09 15:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Lory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see as per some people one should have weight as per there height that is 1 kg for 1 inch but then again its matte of your own will if you find yourself fit enough and don'twant to lose weight then its okay people will say anything even if you lose those 5 pounds than they will say u need to loose more 1 pounds so don't listen to other just listen to your self.
2007-06-09 15:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by puneet r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! You are one good-looking lass!
I don't know what 'better' is supposed to mean in this context. If you were five pounds lighter you would look five pounds thinner, but who says that would be an improvement? As long as your weight isn't on an upward trend, I wouldn't think twice about it. Who are these people anyway? Are they jealous?
Maybe your hair is fat, I dunno. If you were my wife I wouldn't be dropping any 'lose weight' hints.
2007-06-09 15:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by palaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look fine.
Be happy with yourself and don't pay too much attention to the "standards."
Peace to you.
2007-06-09 15:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lost. at. Sea. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything below a metric ton would be okay.
2007-06-09 15:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by einsteinliam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, no...!!!
I'm not gonna fall for that one...
"You look perfect, honey bunch...!!!
"You're beautiful...!!!
Don't change a thing...!!!
2007-06-09 16:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋