i hav lost my confidence after failing in a exam...nobody believes in my capabilities..even i don't believe in myself..i hav to give my university entrance exam after 15 days but i m nt preparing 4 it. bcz of lack of confidence in my capabilities ..even my family hav no faith in my capabilities..help me plzzzzzzz...
2007-06-09 07:38:38 · 5 answers · asked by anu .c 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do You want Me to get angry with You on Your behalf, or are You prepared to do it Yourself? You poor pathetic excuse for a human being. What a cop out. If You know that You are such a failure why then are You wasting time asking for guidance? Get Your face into those books and start studying. You don't have time to listen to Me. You have a life to get on with.
2007-06-09 07:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually an entrance exam or SAT or GMAT test takes several months of studying hard and cramming, and usually you take a prep course or a course at home with a video and tests...seems you have lost your motivation for going to school. Why did you lose your motivation from the start? Do you not see the light at the end of the tunnel, is it the wrong career choice for you, are you not prepared enough from high school, are you being forced to go to college, or is it something else in your personal life like you are afraid to become an adult, or afraid you will be leaivng home? Find out what it is, stall that exam in asking to take the next one, and then get that course and study. You might think you have the capabilities but something is lacking in you. You can't pass unless you study. University is not like high school even though a few courses may be brush-up for you. One of the things we do here is that the person attends a junior college or community college and works toward an Associates degree first of all because it's less expensive to do it that way, but moreso because they aren't prepared for university level language, understanding, coping. So I suggest you work toward your Associates..
2007-06-09 14:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this way you will un-confidence yourself right into another failure. You seem to have got a lot more out of the failure than just a simple oh well get over it and study harder. You seem to indicate that you are swimming in the glory of the depression and subsequent feelings associated all along the way to the need to repeat the satisfaction of succeeding at failing. Maybe everybody does have faith in you not to succeed in passing but to succeed in failing. They must have known something perhaps you don't admit to yourself. You are a winner and everybody knows it. You win at failing.
You want to get out of this complex equilibrium? Than fail to fail the exam. All your folks will probably fall back in their chairs. But if you have been at it some time they will be upset at you rocking the boat and not know how to integrate this new you into their lives and will do all they can to make sure you return to the habitual social complex equilibrium they are used to you being in.
2007-06-09 15:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to redefine failure. It only means experience and it is necessary to have it at least once in your life so you learn how to be both humble and confident.
2007-06-09 16:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then try changing your focus of what failure means. Decide that to Win means to Try and Try again (tenacity or the strength to come back) and when you internalize it you will be ready to go again!! Best of Luck. @8-) change focus
2007-06-09 14:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋