Do i spoil my wife too much.While out shopping ive hoovered all downstairs and mopped it too?

Question

Also done the dusting up and put the laundrey in the washer.It's not just today ive done it, i do it quite a lot of times.The only thing i can't and won't do is the ironing.

Answer 1

O my god you are a rare thing, well done you I hope your wife appreciates it.

Answer 2

Well, we don't know what your WIFE does. Maybe she takes care of the kids, cooks for ALL of you, does the mending,mows the lawn and works outside of the home. All in heels! Just kidding about the last part , but If she does, No you do not 'spoil' her. You make it sound as if these are things that only SHE should do. When are guys going to get it through their heads that all the work can be SHARED. If you can do it while she does other things, it'll be done much faster, then you both could go out and play sooner!! Oh yeah, you're a good boy for helping around the house, keep up the good work!!

Answer 3

Unless you and your wife live in separate homes I think "spoiled" is a bit pretentious and exaggerated. What you contribute to your own home depends on the conditions in which you want to live in it. Unless you have some notion that you are not to lift a finger and your wife wholeheartedly agrees with you resulting in this being your unexpected "gift" to her, then I'd imagine as a family everyone contributes to the upkeep of the home based on a personal standard of living and the obvious need of certain things having to be done. So calling it "spoiling her" to maintain your OWN home and investment, is like people who call watching their own kids "babysitting", its ridiculous.

Answer 4

it would seem you do not like a challenge then! nothing like mastering the steam button on an iron. once you have the knack it is very satisfying to have a wardrobe of impeccably ironed clothes; perhaps your wife could mentor you, then you could return the favour and teach her the things she maybe takes for granted that you would like her to do for you now and again. balance is what's needed, then spoiling each other wont come into the equation, just love and respect, going that extra mile. best wishes to you both.

Answer 5

How is that spoiling your wife? I assume you live there too. Your question gives the impression that you are spoilt for thinking that looking after your own home is not really your responsibility. Or are you saying that she does no housework at all? If so then that isn't fair at all.

Answer 6

Hell no you don't spoil her. Women like it when our men take care of us, you don't have to do it every time she goes shopping or she may expect it and be confused on a day you don't feel like doing it. But you're a pretty great guy to take care of your wife like that. Keep it up!

Answer 7

Oh brother, want a cookie? Why on earth would you ask that question? Well gee, I don't know, is my husband spoiled because I do everything around the house while he works his butt off all day at his job?!
Lame question, now get back to work!

Answer 8

You are just a reasonable thoughtful guy. Today chores are shared. You clean for you, not for her.

Spoil her every chance you get ---- she's worth it.
Does she work ? If so even more reason to help.

Was dinner waiting for her ?
How was the "I cleaned today honey" sex ?

Man does not live by housework alone.

Answer 9

No you don't spoil her at all, sharing the 'chores' means more time for other things - and less stress all round. You must have a wonderful relationship.

Answer 10

Yeah you should do that and more! I do all I can even the cooking I even run her bath. I spoil her cause I love her and want her to be free to do whatever she wants.