i was just wondering...... i was with my ex boyfriend for 5 years (im 24) and we have a six year old son together and we split up and he didnt see him for 2 1/2 years or called or anything.. it was court ordered he pay $50 a month in child support and he never paid a dime... we got back together 2 months ago and split back up because i just cant love him like i used to a few years ago........
ANSWER MY QUESTION PLEASE AND TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOUR SITUATION....... THANKS :)
2007-06-09 01:22:44 · 24 answers · asked by i♥holio 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am very happily married. i have been for almost 6 years, but weve been together for 10 years. i had a son by my ex, (deadbeat also, never has paid a dime in child support, hasnt seen him in 8 years) anyway, my husband adopted my son, and thats worked out wonderful...from my experience with my ex, you will never be able to work things out with him, he "wronged" you and your/his child. he took alot of respect with him when he left, which i would imagine you would never give him back. move on, find someone that will treat you and your child like the both of you deserve. its alot easier than trying to change a deadbeat...thats impossible
2007-06-09 02:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was living with babys daddy for 2 and a half years.
Then we split up do to many problems.
Then we got married during the split up ( did I mention I was crazy ).
Then we move back together and had another kid.
Then I and the kids moved out and I seeked for a divorce. I too couldnt love him the way i did before the cheating and lying and what nots.
Now we have been seperated for about a year. He comes around to see the kids and wants to reunite but I just dont feel it is the best decision.
Do what you know is best.
2007-06-09 01:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married for 17 years. Have 3 1/2 year old triplets.
We waited a long time to have children so we could ensure our marriage was strong before complicating it with little ones. By now we can withstand anything. I wouldn't have wanted to have kids in the first few years, we might not have made it this long.
2007-06-09 06:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Triplets Dad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different hon, you cannot lump human nature together! I have been happily married for years! But it doesn't mean that every guy who'd married my wife instead of me, would be happy. You could have met another partner and had no trouble being content in your relationship! On the other hand, the same problems just might occur! You can never tell. Have a great day hon.
2007-06-09 01:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married. I lived with my husband for 12 years before we married. We have a 13 year old son together. He's a good man and a good father.
If you don't love your ex anymore because of your history, maybe you should move on. It doesn't sound like he's been very good to you or your son.
2007-06-09 01:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Married for 24 years this is my second marriage .Some people grow apart you should stay friends for the child but find someone who will make you happy and love your child . You should make him pay his child support
2007-06-09 01:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Libra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently with someone, who I am very happy with. But let me tell you breaks dont work. If you couldn't make it work the first time what makes you think you can make it the second. You did agood thing with breaking up with him again. If he walked out on you and your son for 2 1/2 years thats got to say SOMETHING about him! Some guys just take longer to grow up and mature then others!
2007-06-09 01:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorced few months now, just curious, how did your ex get away with only paying $50.00 in child support. Also i belevie if you want you can go back to court to collect any past due child support
2007-06-09 06:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by lostmypants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married almost 18 years, had first child two years after we were married. Things have been wonderful, and our love has grown deeper and stronger over the years.
2007-06-09 03:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly have been married and now i'm divorced, yet i'm with a guy now that I ahve regularly occurring provided that i replaced into like 14 and we've been mutually than and we had a little one as quickly as we've been youthful additionally. we are back mutually and function been for 5 years now:)
2016-12-12 16:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by cavallo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋