and he puts his brother before me or our kids is that right or should we come first
2007-06-08 23:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by madkt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you and kids should always be his priority, no excuse about that.
2007-06-09 01:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nomimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think family should always come first and by this, I mean immediate family before extended family. When he made a life and a family with you, you became his immediate family but then again, I don't know in what ways he puts his brother before you and your kids so I can't really say if it's right or not. You should ask yourself if the situation as it is right now serves the best interest of your family. If it doesn't, sit down and have a serious talk with your partner about your concerns.
2007-06-08 23:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Trillian 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you and your kids should always come first . He should tell the brother later and take care of you and the kids first . His brother should understand that . if not he is a jerk . Sit him down and have a talk with him.
2007-06-08 23:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor you and your kids
If your man was a man no one would come before you and your children
sit down and tell him what you feel he is in the wrong
good luck
Respect
shaz
2007-06-09 00:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a man or a woman starts a family of his own, his priorities naturally change and so whether he likes it or not, the priority becomes the wife and the kids.
sad to say, his siblings and even parents become second option.
selfish?
no.
it is being responsible and being man enough to stand up to the fact that he is head of the family
2007-06-08 23:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by attyjudz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell ya man p*** off or put up with it as he wont change now i personly would show him the door me n kids would be better of not putting up with selfish men
2007-06-09 02:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by smurfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kids and you should come before anyone else
2007-06-08 23:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should come first
2007-06-09 01:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should coem first, you are alos his family now...
2007-06-08 23:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Out of Reach 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋