Have you ever felt this way???

Question

Have you ever felt, you don't know who you are anymore and your confuse about yourself??? how did you overcome it? I started feeling this way, when this girl broke my heart. I been changing my appearence alot and i just dont know who i am anymore.

Answer 1

Ahh, those are the classic feelings people have after their heart has been broken. There is no quick-fix to this. What I suggest you do is take time to find out who you are and what you want. If you really know who you are and what you want, it will help your next relationship tremendously.

That's not to say that you should jump into another relationship any time soon. In fact, I would highly suggest that you DON'T do that. You're still young (I'm assuming, by your picture?) and you have lots of time to start a new relationship. Use this "single time" to figure out what is going to make YOU happy. And the advice I give all my single friends: Don't go looking for a relationship; if it's meant to be, it'll just happen.

Hope this helps -- feel better soon! =)

Answer 2

Sounds like you are better off without her. My guess is that you have been shaping your life around hers for some time. To be mentally healthy, a relationship has to be one of equals where there is mutual exchange and the couple grow into each other gradually.

Have a really good look at yourself and consider how you felt about things before you met her. Ask friends how you have changed over the last while. If there are any changes for the better, maybe hang on to them. If for the worse, well, do the obvious... Pursue your own interests again.

Good luck. Will keep you in the prayers.

Answer 3

I think we all feel, at certain times, that we really don't know who exactly we are. Like we're drifting. I have felt that way before. Don't change yourself over a girl. She is definitely not worth it. Just be happy with yourself and try to find your own path again. I hope that doesn't sound too cliche or whatever, mentioning the path, but I'm being serious. Just be happy with yourself and let yourself find... well, you again.

Answer 4

Yes, as a teenager and young adult I did. You are still changing so much and figuring out your way in life, it is quite normal for a thinking person to feel angst like this.
Be as deliberate as you can be about who and what your influences are at this stage of life. Be wise in your choice of friends and what you surround yourself with. IN a moment of clarity think about the type of people you admire and what their influences are, and do likewise. don't just be blown about by the winds of popular culture.

Of course, my personal opinion is that there's no better guidebook than the Bible. It contains the answers to everything, IMO. Keep one handy (BIBLE= Basic Instruction Book for Life on Earth).
All the best to you.

Answer 5

you are what you were... accept it boy ....because it was written and so it happened........
she did brake your heart but taught you so much... some feelings that would have been impossible to teach are now well acquainted with you... isn't tht so Aaron ???? cheer up.. life is beautiful !! there are so many more girls to come in your life and teach you so much more.......

chat with friends.. go out... party and just dont think about her.... because

YOU HAVE LOST SOMEONE WHO WAS NEVER YOURS AND SHE LOST SOMEONE WHO WAS ONLY HERS !!

Answer 6

She did you a favour. She now has created a situation where you are free to move on to find someone who will appreciate your for all you have to offer.

Changing yourself, appearance or otherwise, to please her or anyone else will leave you always changing to please someone. Accept who you are, now, and find those who will accept you as you are now.

Answer 7

yea and wow heck yes