Would you be friend in real life with a guy u met on the internet?

Question

there is a guy on my messenger who wants to be friend with me!going out with me and blah blah!!

i only met him but thats all!

what would u do??

Answer 1

Be very careful sweetheart. I've seen your picture.You're a beautiful girl and that can attract a lot of weirdos. If you meet,make sure it's in a public place and that you have friends with you. Make sure you're not alone with him til you get to know him babe.BRING FRIENDS. I plan on being friends with you for a long time to come. Be careful sweetie. ;o)

Answer 2

I met my second husband on the net. We are now divorced. As our relationship developed, we found that, long-term, we are simply incompatible.

My advice would be to be VERY CAREFUL about meeting people from the net. Most of them are just like you and me (harmless); some are NOT.

Meet the person in a public place: mall, restaurant, etc. Take a friend or family member with you. If the net person objects, it should be a huge red flag. A normal person will understand (and welcome!) the need for caution.

After you meet, it's pretty much like any other relationship, except you already know some stuff in advance. Let the relationship grow naturally in the real world, don't rush into anything.

Someone who insists upon secrecy or isolation should be avoided at all costs.

Good luck! :-))

Answer 3

I actually met a man I got to know in the chatroom a few years back. He was a very charming Australian, but he wasn't someone I would want to date. He was an alright guy, but when he came here to the states he had sex with all the married women he had met online. Except for me of course, I didn't want him that way. It was an interesting experience to say the least. We haven't talked in quite a while now, and that's fine with me. I say if it's just to meet and be friends go for it, just take precautions. If he's from somewhere else, set it up for him to stay in a motel so he doesn't know where you live.

Answer 4

That's not a very good idea, it's very risky. Lots of people online may not be who they say they are. You have to take a lot of precautions if you do meet someone in real life. Make sure you meet them in a public place, and bring a friend with you if you can.

Answer 5

you have to be careful on the internet, be sure you try your best to get to know them then if you do meet them meet them in a public space and make sure you have someone with you and you tell someone else where your going and arange a check in time to make sure ok and safe and if they are nice and friendly cool and if not you part ways never to meet again, and when talking online try not to give personal information away espially little details which may lead to where you live or where you work or go to school or anything like that.

Answer 6

Trust your instincts... if anything AT ALL feels a little off or overly weird I'd just take off. Never ever meet any online "nice guys" by yourself or in a secluded location.

Always bring friends :D ... and a large guard dog if the situation permits.

Answer 7

Use caution. I am also communicating with a gentleman I met on the internet. That is about all I can say here. If you would like to hear more contact me. Good Luck to you.

Answer 8

Ive met a few people from the net... even from a dating site.. theres a lot of weirdo's out there, but some people are alright..

Answer 9

If I were you, I would keep him in a distance from me... You can see at times but not as your real friend.. With time time passing by, maybe things will change.. But for now be very careful.... I always reject such proposals :P

Answer 10

people who are too fast in a relationship scare me off sorta. i thenk u shud do whut ur comfortable weth ♥ there are lots of people ive come to love an wud be real happee to know them in real, but they never seem to be the ones that come on liek that so soon!