Why do alot of Women Like Thugs?

Question

I don't get it. Alot of women would rather have a man who they are afraid of or either a man who beats on them.

Someone who is on the run from the cops alot.

WHY?

Answer 1

I guess cause it's adventure or exciting to a point. I was with someone for 14 yrs that abused us and now I have been remarried for 8 yrs now to a wonderful man but it took alot of therapy to get over finding the rough and tough guy.. I am not sure anyone could answer that question honestly.

Answer 2

Hmmmm?. i don't know, but i find it fascinating. i am an RN and worked at San Quintin prison for a while, and you would not believe how many letters and money was sent to those who are the the most viscous of criminals.

my guess would be for the excitement, or morbid thrill of the unpredictable.

now, this is not to say all women go there.

i prefer a gentleman who is not a thug or running from the law. just the plain old intelligent man with a lot of good stuff to contribute to a conversation and a relationship.

i will read all the following answers to get a an idea why this is the way it goes sometimes.

i have good suspicion that some woman love kayos. and, this is how they were living all there lives so the norm can get quite tadeas for them.

Answer 3

You need to meet different women. I don't know any woman who likes a thug. The women I've met who were afraid of the man they were with, found out how crazy their partner was after they married them-before the marriage they were perfect gentlemen (some were religious, some weren't).

Some men and women are very good at hiding what they are like from their partner, until they feel they've "gotcha". Once you're with a violent partner, it is difficult to leave, since many people are attacked and killed when leaving or right after they've left their abusive partner.

Volunteer at a women's battered shelter and get an idea of what these people's lives are like, if you really want to know. Here's more information about domestic abuse: National Domestic Violence Hotline: [phone]-SAFE

Answer 4

We are sexually attracted to 2 types of people.

1. People who look like ourselves. If we are blonde, we like blondes.

2. People who are opposite to ourselves.

The second part indicates we are attracted to, what would have been the case 30,000 years ago, people passing by. This would ensure we increase our genetic diversity.

A tough guy is like that. He isn't going to stay around. He is the guy, a girl meets, has sex with and so on. A quick fling will increase your tribes genetic diversity.

But many girls are also attracted to nice guys. When they want to get married they will look for someone like this. It ensures the survival of your children.

As most women are looking for sexual adventure and not meeting guys with marriage on their mind, the bad guy seems more attractive.

Answer 5

abuse and being a thug have nothing in common. So called Good Christian men beat women too. Hard working men beat and abuse women too.

Some men like wild women. Some men like promiscuous women... it's all a matter of tastes

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Answer 6

No idea...

I know that some women like to be with stronger guys for protection but what's the good of protection if you're scared of the provider?

Answer 7

Immaturity or low self-esteem.... its a faze every women goes through before realizing how stupid she is OR growing up. At least us men know what we want from the beginning and that never really changes. We want hot sexy women... period. Doesn't matter if you're 15 or 95...

Answer 8

Noooooooooooooo, NOT adult women - EVER.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are very confused. Yes, sometimes young GIRLS may find the bad-boy imagine sexy. By contrast, absolutely NEVER do grown-up, mature women find these immature losers and their lengthy criminal records sexy at ALL. However, if the silly, infatuated girls are stupid enough to actually marry these creeps the marriage ALWAYS end up in divorce. The women grow up, look around and ask themselves "OMG -what the hell was I thinking??? What could have posessed me in order for me to marry that loser?

These are the same grown-up women who NOW file for divorce.

Answer 9

because the excitment and also women sometimes feel that they can change the person, there is room for improvment. when a guy is a goody goody, it's nice for a while..but women needs the edginess. It's the same for guys.

Answer 10

The only formal thug I'd consider is D.L. Hughley.