she got pregnat about 5 months ago but her stumaoch isnt that big still sould i say something or not. if i tell she will get mad at me and if the rest of the people know that i know they will not trust me no more.
2007-06-08 19:03:45 · 9 answers · asked by kuky 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it is not for you to tell anyone. it is her responsibility to tell someone. However, you need to tell her that they need to know. Tell her things that they would love to be part of the pregnancy, and give her support. Of course they are going to be shocked at first, thats a given. But eventually, they are going to find out.
It sounds like she is scared to tell her parents for some reason. Not everyone has good parents and if she felt so scared that she couldn't go to them, please don't violate that trust. She needs someone she can trust and she would probably feel completely alone if you violated her trust in you. Just please urge her to tell her parents, a clergy member, a trusted adult friend, or school councellor - someone to help her tell her parents.
Best Regards.
2007-06-08 19:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by JaneDo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pregnant need so much cares. If ur cousin wants her baby to be treated well she should tell her parents. Soon or late her parents will know about that, as soon as they know it will be better for the baby.
For some reasons your cousin doesn't want to tell her parents so you should help her to do that. She should do something for the sake of her baby ...to explain her situation to her parents, let them sympathize for their daughter's condition now. No parents leave their children in a bad condition, they are hurted and shocked when they see their children doing wrong thing, that's why first reaction of them may be mad, the main thing that everybody should act calmly.
2007-06-08 19:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Oops!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And if people know that you knew and didn't tell, then they won't trust you either. Tell your cousin to tell her parents, and say that if you don't, she will. She can't hide it much longer anyway. If she's young and living in her parent's house, I think they need to know, whether she tells or you do. Sometimes you have to stand up even though someone might get mad at you for it. Tell your parents first and let them handle it.
2007-06-08 19:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your cousin getting pre-natal care from a doctor? If not, that is a good reason to tell someone. Otherwise, she'll have to tell them eventually, so I would wait.
2007-06-08 19:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends,how old is she?She sounds young.You should talk to your parents first to decide on the best course of action or another trusted adult.
2007-06-08 19:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Babylove 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that she is recieving the proper prenatal care. Also, it is not your place to tell her family about her situation. She needs to do it herself. What you can do is urge her to tell them. And be there for her. That is what you have to do.
2007-06-08 19:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by thathockeychick23 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her so she can get the courage to talk to her parents i did and it was the day of my sweet 16 its way easier on her if she does
2007-06-08 19:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by selene c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, they are gonna fid out sooner or later, might as well tell them now so she can get medical care and help
2007-06-08 22:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously if she didn't tell them, she doesn't want them to know yet.
If they ask you if you knew, tell them the truth. Yes, you knew, but you wanted her to be the one to tell them.
2007-06-08 19:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by *Syncere* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋