so heres another post about my friend whom ive known since 1st grade whom i think is gay (hope he is!!!) because im gay and am crushing on him. fyi were both 16. anyway, more specifically, i think hes gay for these instances---1 he stood next to me in the bathroom urinals wen no1 else was there and pulled his whole package out in 7th grade. 2. in 8th grade, we wrestled and shanked each other, and one time his d i c k came out and he just tucked it back and didnt pull his pants up. 3. also in 8th grade (were in 10 now), we wrestled at my house and threw pillows and laughed n smiled n looked each other in the eyes, then i threw him onto the bed and hugged him from behind for like 2 mins and he didnt mind. 4. hes never had a gf. 5. he never talks bout girls. 6. girls ask him out he always says no. 7. we went on a bus trip to NY and on the streets we were takin a break from walkin and i nudged him and he nudged me bak (that was this year). we been busy w/sports/skool cuz we g2 differnt
2007-06-08 16:44:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
skools but were goin down to the beach june 23 through the 30. should i try to get with him then? should i do it sooner? (he told me we have to hang out soon). and we played poker the other day and he shot me smiles every now and then like 3 times. what do u all think? p.s. i have not outright told him im gay but he mite have guessed cuza all the things mentioned above
2007-06-08 16:44:55 · update #1
he has a myspace...should i make one up and ask him if hes gaY?
2007-06-08 17:04:27 · update #2
tell him you felt horny last night and jerked off, see if he says something like that's cool or wish I'd been there
2007-06-09 09:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's always a possibility. Who knows. You should probably try talking to her about it if you're really curious. Maybe she's just a little bit on the extremely outgoing side? Or it could be a phase, most people go through a stage in their lives when they feel more on the gay side, but it could pass. But if it bothers you you should ask her to stop.
2016-05-20 07:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and tell him you are gay.
I have a gay son. A fraternity brother was moving to the same city my son lived in. He offered to share his apartment with the friend, who took him up on it. Before his friend came down my son called him to tell him he was gay. The next day the friend called my son and told him he was gay..... Neither one had suspected. Although there was no romance between them they lived together for several years.....
So take the chance and just tell him. You should do it before your trip to the beach though. Telling him then could put a damper on the trip and he may need time to adjust to you being gay if he isn't.
2007-06-08 16:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hugging thing obviously shows that he is very close with you. I wouldn't do stereotypes just yet and say that he is gay. Just ask him about it and maybe tell him that you have feelings for him. Maybe things will go from there. Good luck to you!
2007-06-08 16:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go for it stop wasting good time you could have been with this person you like so much by now if you stop going about it the way you have . All the signs are there what more do you want.
GOOD LUCK
2007-06-08 18:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe you've asked this question so many times that I am forced to revised my answer where I have encouraged both of you to be open to one another.
The repetition of the same question time after time after time suggests you are somehow mentally defective and once your "crush" finds that out he's going to bail on the relationship. So don't screw him up ... stay away until you get your head out of your butt.
2007-06-08 17:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok i think its about time that you just pull out ur package in front of him and ask him if he wants some of it. when you are ready to do that than you should ask him.
2007-06-08 16:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya y not u make ur own myspace page..........then there u can ask him bout dat things......maybe he also shame wit u to talk about dat face to face with you so try other way........i mostly n surely think dat he is gay also.........just be brave u u got want u want.........what happened with my suggestion.........any improvement.......be brave man......
(the sign a there........n u need to talk with him.......invite him dinner at your home or watch a gay film at your room.......or just talk to him about fashion then........slowly move to sex topic........when he reply it's your chance to get now bout his feelings.....believe me......u just must be a bit brave..........)
2007-06-09 01:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by illham pohan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that when you hang out next, you should just flat out TELL him!! then i mean, you'll know. and it sounds like he is from those hints up there.
whatever you do, good luck!!
2007-06-08 17:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by ILuvTheUsed&MCR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, this is like the 7054 time youve asked this ******* question. JUST ASK HIM!!!
2007-06-08 16:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋