Would you take her back?

Question

She was a good girlfriend at first, she was like the perfect girl a guy could ask for. But halfway into our relationship she started changing for the worse.

She called me a freak, She cheated on me. (Though the guy didnt like her back), She ignores me, She tells me she doesent want to talk to me, and she constantly makes me feel like crap.

She did all this even though ive bought her flowers, cards, and all kinds of stuff for her for no reason. Shes even told me im a perfect boyfriend. Its been a year ago yesterday since we first started going out. She broke up with me since she liked other guys, shes broke up with me many times before, and she allways begs for me to take her back.

Would you take her back?

Shes the only girl who i know likes me...

Remember, this is a poll to see if YOU would take her/him back. Ive made up my mind.

Answer 1

josh..
seriously, if she made you feel like s*it than no way.. it seems like you deserve way better and it looks like she's moved on and you havn't.. great gf huh? and its her loss, not yours :/ its as if it doesnt work out for her with other guys she turns to you.

so my answer is no

Answer 2

Josh, I have always sensed that YOU are articulate, sensitive and super intelligent, but try to tell that to the heart...ONLY YOU can really answer that.....do you want her back? YOU are a DREAM hon, and women I know would weep for the kind of person that you come across as.....apparently the young lady had a slip, well that can happen....has she REALLY seen the error of her ways? YOU call the shots now honey!!!! I believe in whatever your answer will be.....
Thank You for being in MY life Josh!
xxoxx
Mistress Elizza Lioncourt
P.S. It appears that this young woman has a set pattern to use you....in actuality, I would NOT take her back.....there are people out there who are true..you are one, I am another and I know what it is like to be decieved.....it hurts like a scalding burn to the heart.....ultimately up to you though...personally, NO I would NOT take her back.

Answer 3

Hell No! She is a psycho Bi@ch! Nobody deserves to be treated that way! I used to take a lot of crap from my ex-boyfriend. He used to verbally abuse me, and he cheated on me and acted all psycho. He had me so brainwashed that I thought I couldn't make it without him. Well, I did! Now I am with the most wonderful person who treats me like a queen! I have often wondered why we date crappy people. The only thing I can figure out is that it is so we will really appreciate it when we find someone who treats us good.

Answer 4

ok, you want to hear the truth? and this is from a female point of view. No, No, No. Do not take her back. She is a "user". I hate to say this, but you are what's called her "fall back on guy". She's out there playing the field and waiting to find someone else (not you) and when they turn her down she know's that she has you to fall back on. Put your foot down and tell her goodbye for good. Believe me, there are plenty of "good women" out there that are LOYAL, fun, loving, caring, and will give back to you what you have given them. Any woman who cheats will always cheat. Trust me.
Good Luck,
michellemybelle

Answer 5

You are her fall-back-on guy - the one who waits and waits and takes her back each time she doesn't have a current boyfriend. It's a terrible role to accept in someone's life. She cares nothing for you and you keep acting like the faithful puppy dog just waiting for her to come back home.

Stop it, right now! She has no respect or love for you. Please, develop some for yourself. Start by having nothing to do with this ungrateful girl. The strange thing is, as soon as you start ignoring her, she may be attracted to you again.

Learn to like yourself and other girls will find you attractive.

Answer 6

Nope. I would not take her back. Even if she was the only girl that like me, I am far better off without her. I don't need to spend anymore of my life feeling like crap. She is a jerk and needs to learn how to treat others. I think I deserve way better than what she is giving.

So-- did you take her back?

Answer 7

People who really love you don't make you feel like crap.
No, don't take her back. She has no respect for you. It sounds like you have given her way too many chances and she has oviously not changed. It's time to open a new chapter in your life with a nicer woman who really loves you.
Hope you make the right choice!

Answer 8

Probably not a good choice, sounds like shes emotionally unstable and has some growing up to do. Im sure you can find a girl that will treat you ALOT better

Answer 9

It sounds to me like she has some self-loathing and is trying to confirm to herself she is that bad. It's common, unfortunately. She may also have realized she is not as serious about you, or any relationship, as you are about her. Either way, this is not a healthy relationship for you.
Take your good memories and make new ones with someone else when you feel better.

Answer 10

Personally, no. Thats mainly because I try to live in the present and that is clearly the past. If someone cheats on me, its over. But again, thats me. Whatever you decided on, I wish you the best of Luck!

Answer 11

HELL NO!
What's better is that the second you start ignoring her and going out with someone else, she will be crying on your porch and begging you to take her back again and you and your new girlfriend can laugh at her!
The chick sounds like she was just using you until (what she though) something better came along!
Tell her to kick rocks

The definition of insanity (one of them anyway) is doing the same thing but expecting different results....
Same actions on your part (you taking her back) will give you the same results (she will continue to treat you like feces)....if you take her back, we will all start to wonder about YOUR sanity!!