I asked an earlier question and mentioned having no arguments in it and got responses saying that it was impossible for two people to never have an argument. I lived a marriage of 16 years with no arguments, but discussions with a positive outcome in each case. Don't you think people can be mature enough to handle a problem without an argument?
2007-06-08 16:01:06 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes I do,I spent 7 yrs.with a man and we never had a single argument. When 2 people are meant to be together and they really click,they accept their mate unconditionally. Life is meant to be spent argument free but sometimes couples will have them. For me though,life is to short to spend it arguing with someone I love.
2007-06-08 16:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ღ♥Jeanene♥ღ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people can be mature enough to handle 99% of problems without an argument. But even in the most positive, professional relationships there are bound to be disagreements. If there are none, then someone is not speaking up. And not speaking up for sixteen years is not only unhealthy, but probably means there was somesort of abuse. There is no other reason a person would not discuss their opinions.
2007-06-08 16:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I don't know. The making up is worth a little back and forth now and again.
I personally could not live 16 yrs w/o any upsets w/someone I lived with. I am a bit hot headed and what is the word? b i t c * y. That is why I choose to remain single, why put them through it.
Good for you, not everyone is like that.
Have a cool weekend.
2007-06-08 16:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see that two people could do that. It would be pretty unlikely, and I do agree that if that were said, in general, it would mean one of the people was being walked on. But if you say that you were married for 16 yrs with no arguments, I believe you!
2007-06-08 16:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Cris O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My g-friend and I never argue.. so, it's possible, but most people like to fly off the handle and yell at their spouses. Her and I have been together for over 4 years.. it's not in comparison to your 16, but, we get along great and will be happy for years without any fighting along the way!!!
2007-06-08 16:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♫JordinSparks♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe 2 out of 1000. And lucky your relationship is one of those that have no arguments. But I think most of us fight, agrued, mad and upset at each other sometimes. My husband and I argue sometimes over silly things. But I try not to let it lead into a big fight.
2007-06-08 16:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but for some reason I get really p- -- - -sometimes and it turns in to a argument. But good for you keep up the good work
2007-06-08 16:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope things go that well for me when the time comes. I would hate to argue with the one person I care about so much.
You are very lucky. It almost NEVER works out that way.
2007-06-08 16:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe so I've been married for 20 years and have only had occasional minor disagreements with my wife . We use humor and lighthearted teasing when we disagree and that has worked for us so far .
2007-06-09 03:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, at least not any relationship I will ever be in. If you can't argue with your mate then who can you argue with. I equate intimacy with arguing because I can only show that side of myself to someone I really feel comfortable with.
2007-06-08 16:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by pditty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋