Why is it that my husband had to wach the cavs game every time he gets even 1 minute? And when I come and try to talk to him it's like I am not there. If I did that to him he would get mad too, so why is it okay for him? Oh yeah and why is it that if he does something wrong its okay but if I do the same thing it's not? And he NEVER does anything wrong and always finds ways to twist things to be my fault. I am not denying anything...because I am human...I make mistakes. But is he superhuman? And just FYI we don't really fight. It is basically we make coments here and there. And just once and a while. So its not a huge issue.
2007-06-08 13:13:11 · 2 answers · asked by Love not hate 5 in Sports ➔ Other - Sports
Why does this have to be normal? Are all men this way? Is there anything I can do to change this situation? I mean I don't care about him waching the game but I don't want to be invisible either.
2007-06-08 13:23:35 · update #1
Sounds like you have to learn to pick your spots.
Your husband may have a strong emotional attachment to the Cavs that stretches back decades. This is the first time the team has ever played in the NBA Finals. Therefore, it might be pretty important for him to see the Cavs right now.
Now, if something comes up that is quite important, you have every right to be upset if you get little to no response. That may be a sign of bigger problems, worth talking about at an unemotional time.
Sometimes you just have to air out the dirty laundry.
2007-06-08 13:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by wdx2bb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty normal to me.
2007-06-08 20:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Swede 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋