i am very scared that he will lose interest in me i mean he tells me he loves me all the time and i tell him but now i want to scream every time he leaves my house or tell me he loves me i want him back in my arms then i think never mind just leave me alone help whats going on
2007-06-08 13:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by julie n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Gettin' too clingy will send him running for the hills, honey.
You have to trust him and back off a little.
You seem a little obsessive, so my suggestion is to get with some girlfriends that you had before you got with this guy and hang out with them. You need to remind yourself that you are a separate human being from this person, and get a life of your own.
Guys act like they don't like girls who have a lot of friends, but they'd rather have that than a gal who won't leave them alone for a day.
Trust me - I was like that in high school and it turned out terrible!
Get your life back sister! It'll be okay!
2007-06-08 13:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Done 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After two years you still do not deep inside believe that he loves you, you are insecure with this. Please do not be because the tighter you put a hold on him, the more you choke his freedom, and add pressure to him in wanting to keep you happy yet having to leave for work etc. the bigger chance you have of driving him away. To be in love above all involves trust in a relationship and what appears here is you are worried about losing him which denotes a lack of trust. Speak with your man about these fears, and more importantly believe and trust in his answers
2007-06-08 13:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ready for the next commitment whether it's living together or getting married. I think would be normal after two years of the dating scene. You saying never mind , is like when you really want something and can't get it and I and most people will say" Oh never mind I didn't really want it anyway"......but to be honest we really did want it.
2007-06-08 13:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel! For me, when he's gone i get scared and lonely, but when im with him sometimes i get erked a little. But i love him more than anything in this world!!! Im scared he'll lose interest in me too!! I dont know what's going on either!!!! Maybe its just our hormones or something!
2007-06-08 13:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by hawaiizangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like it 's over from your point of view, but like a baby that doesn't want to give up it's pacifier, you're reluctant to totally let him go.
2007-06-08 13:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be a little obsessed with him. seek professional help.
2007-06-08 13:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by garyp8178 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and move on, this is a very bad relationship
2007-06-08 13:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋