I've been going out with her for 1.5 years during college.
Never had a fight before, were great with both families and relationship seemed to be in perfect shape where mine and her friends would often say that we would never split, and get married one day. But one day, she called and told me that she wants to break up with me. After about a week later she took me back...then boom, kicked me out of her life again...
It's so funny because she was the one who was head over heals for me..We both just graduated college and are both heading to the same city to go to (different) grad school. We'll be approx about 25 minutes apart. Whether she really do needs "space" or she has another guy, I don't know and I don't think I want to know. It has been 1.5 month after the break up and about a month since the last time I've talk/saw her.
So my question for ya'll are...What is going through her mind right now? Will she call back?What should I do? and should I give her space and not call?
2007-06-08 12:24:13 · 7 answers · asked by bearz2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-06-13 17:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, I don't think she found another man just yet -- However she probably is scared of long-term commitment and wants to feel young again and go out with her friends more. This was the case w/ my ex. If you were always good to her she will come back to you- does not mean you can't go have some fun in the meantime! Go get out there and talk to some other girls they will take your mind off her when you realize there are girls much cooler then her.
2007-06-08 12:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 years ago had a similar situation when dating my wife, on again, off again, until we had a discussion in which I stated OK enough of this if all you want is to be friends I can live with that, if you want to be more I can live with that I just need a decision as to where we are. Fact of the matter is she was waiting for me, me to make the decision and show that I am strong, resilient, and no matter what unconditionally will be her friend no matter what. Probably way off base here but it is what I went through and we have lsted over 25 years. Girls your thoughts?
2007-06-08 12:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what is going through her mind, but I htink you should give her her space. If you call her and bug her, it's just going to make you look desperate, not her. Every once in a while if you cross paths, I don't see a problem with casual conversation, but I would just worry about you and what you need to do right now. Maybe she'll call, and maybe she won't. Either way, you can't let it control your life.
2007-06-15 06:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Shay_Shay03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question is while she sent the photograph and what the message replaced into approximately? i'm optimistic men could point out how great their ex's have been. gals do this too! the clarification she is his ex is by using the fact they did no longer paintings out, and that they gained't. you notice, in the event that they broke up cuz of something they could replace, that's greater risky. for the certainty she's consistently older than him, that they are in a position to't replace. they could be acquaintances. my ex and that i are good acquaintances for 10 years, my gf for 5 years is jealous of her. yet she is mature approximately it, she knows human beings desire acquaintances, ex's understand you greater advantageous than any of your different acquaintances. i'm no longer reducing tie, my gf is jealous yet no longer being unreasonable, they even chat with one yet another. i admire my gf greater suitable than something. a courting is in step with have faith. I certainly have a lot of my ex's %. on my pc. that's no longer cuz I fancy her, that's cuz she's one in all my good acquaintances. if my gf had regarded up my text fabric and each little thing, we does no longer be mutually this long. between the gals I dated regarded up the ex's messages, I broke up along with her when I found out. i does no longer concepts if she asked fairly.
2016-12-12 15:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think you should give her space. Obviously, she's toying with your emotions.
The fact of the matter is...She's taking you for granted.
Maybe, she feels like you'll always wait around for her. So, she is off having fun, while you are heartbroken and confused.
The best thing to do is move on and not blame yourself.
2007-06-08 13:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has another man. Usually women do this when they find someone else. They just find some reason to start a fight and break it off.
Sorry but true. Just let her go.
2007-06-08 12:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by Shanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋