Ok.Last year she got mad at me and smashed a twinkie in my face.I forgave her..A month ago she burned me with a hot iron.I forgave her.Today she threw my favorite lamp at me and now I have a very bad headache.I think she is pretty rude.
2007-06-08 11:21:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She loves you.....
2007-06-08 11:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dave B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU are a masochist and need pro help if you allow yourself to be physically abused. MY ex friend Marty had his second wife to stab him in front of me, and she landed a cut with a serious blade. I helped him get an order of protection, and this second wife lied in Court saying he did it to her. However, the police had been summoned, and a report was on file which showed HE was the cut one. He then told me that she was his wife, and why would he leave her. When I heard this, I left him as a friend a nd never looked back. He was nuts as could be, and maybe you need a psychological evaluation too.
2007-06-08 18:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical abuse should not be tolerated at all. Make an ultimatum that the next display of violence will cause you to throw her out, and stick to it.
This behavior can only escalate and is that the type of relationship you want?
2007-06-08 18:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by pensacola_sand 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're kidding. If not... well, she's got bigger problems than just being rude. Sounds like my ex-husband who got mad and stepped on our young daughter's birthday cake. Over 20 years later, she still remembers it. That's the kind of stuff you're in for if you tie up with this gal.
2007-06-08 18:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by BooBooKins 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
File a police report. Be courageous and make an example out of her. Human beings should not be violent towards one another. I am kinda joking, but kinda serious. You should try to get her into anger management and if she won't go say "Bu...Bye!"
2007-06-08 18:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy_Fool 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your girlfriend has anger issues and does what she wants phyiscally because she knows she can get away with it. Women aren't the only ones who get Physically Beaten. You need to lay down the laws and tell her to stop, or leave her. You don't deserve to be with a women who does that.
2007-06-08 18:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has a lot of unresolved anger issues. My suggestion is to distance yourself from her and perhaps down the road (after she has sought out counseling) there is hope for a relationship. I wouldn't get my hope up though, as people who abuse their partners aren't typically able to maintain the relationship after resolving their anger and violence issues.
2007-06-08 18:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by tofuish 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UM, get a new girl friend. Thats not normal. You seem like a very forgiving guy. Are you going to forgive her when she tries to run you over with a vehicle too?
2007-06-08 18:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem like she respects you at all. You are in an abusive relationship. I suggest you leave her because it is likely that her behavior will only get worse and occur more often.
2007-06-08 18:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has a hot temper. Ditch her before it gets worse, unless of course she is improving.
2007-06-08 18:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by shmoe832002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, just for fun, see what happens when you burn her, or break her favorite stuff? OK. I don't think she'll forgive you as easily!!
ditch it man, figure out what you're getting from her-why you insistently forgive her, and go get it from somebody else!
2007-06-08 18:25:57 · answer #11 · answered by inferno0424 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋