Ok well me and my best friends have been friends since kindergarten and she has always got the hott guys well as she thinks and i haven't liked any of them so far but now her sisters friend hooked her brother and my friend up.So we go to the movies and she asked me to come b/c she didnt want to go alone,so i went.Well im 12 and she is to but neway,well during the movie she got all sweaty b/c she was holding his hand b/c she is like some shy freak around guys and i have to make her open up around them.Well she asked me to go with her to the restroom to talk about her bf so i did and she said she was scared of being herself so she made me sit next to him so me and him talked during the whole movie and she just watched it and acted like she wasn't even going out with him.Well For the past 5 days me and him have been texin a lot and i really like him.He is kinda like me hes funny crazy and outgoing a lot like me.My friend only likes him because he is hot.Should i tell her i like him or wat
2007-06-08 11:08:52 · 6 answers · asked by jaderbug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I understand how you feel, but you I think if you were to act upon it would be wrong due to the book, "The Rules of Friendship".
Your friends relationship is just developing so of course she is going to be nervous and scared. You should of gave her a a pep talk and told her its okay to be nervouse just relax and have fun. If you know this is her problem, you should know that sitting next to him, is not helping her opening up.
How did you get his phone number, and even if you got it in an approved way, you shouldnt abuse it like you are now. In the end, you are going to lose a BF..which is way more important than some funny, cute guy.
Your only 12 so maybe it will take some time to dawn on you that there will be millions of guys out there, but only a few best friends. I suggest you stop contacting him and pay more attention to your friend.
Hope this helps..
If your so confident around guys, Im sure you can find your own!
2007-06-08 11:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you like him tell your bf but for me there is no point to tell your bf cos if you do it might ruin your friendship. maybe shes not really into him who knows.
2007-06-08 18:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by felicity m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You had better keep this to yourself and btw b/f s come and go . Your girlfriends are sometimes friends forever . good luck .
2007-06-08 18:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You guys seem real close.Don't ruin a good friendship.Don't tell her.
2007-06-08 18:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by m○○♥m○○ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her. Get over it and find some one single.
2007-06-08 18:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by jenii75 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is your best friend. Leave him alone.
2007-06-08 18:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋