2007-06-08 09:32:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Leave it alone or u might lose ur friendship
2007-06-08 09:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One very important thing that you have to take into consideration. Love is blind, she is not going to see the dangers that you see. Tell her that you are being a very concerned friend and that you have noticed some things that need to be talked about in a careful, adult manner. Then tell her the things that are troubling you and why. Over time she will see and understand the things you will show her. During that time, let her know that you are still her friend and that you will not abandon her. In the end, your friendship will become stronger than the bond of sisters. A true friend sticks closer than a brother.
2007-06-08 09:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by sasha1wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same situation, and my plan is to try to listen more than I talk to her. I think she already knows how I feel without my ever having had to say anything, and my sense is that she has her own personal issues that have gotten her into this situation in the first place. The best way that I can be there for her at the moment is to help her understand herself better. If I need to step in though, I will speak my mind without hestitation.
2007-06-08 09:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by chrysalis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really appreciate that you care about your best friend, but there's nothing much you can do! It's her/his personal life, and you have no right to get involved. Even if he/she doesn't realize that this relationship might be bad, he/she has the right to decide if he/she goes on or puts a stop to it.
If you really want to help, you can talk to your best friend and tell him/her your honest opinion about his/her relationship. Don't try to influence him/her about it, just let him/her know about what you think. That's your only duty as a good friend.
2007-06-08 09:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by boy_out_of_hell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do, besides be there for her and talk to her. Because if you come on too strong (about her relationship) she may stop talking to you and think you are just jealous, but if you don't say anything she'll think you don't care or she could seriously get hurt! It's a tough road but don't give up on her if she's smart, she'll come around.
2007-06-08 09:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That happened 2 me 2. All U have 2 do is talk 2 her, but talk 2 her when your alone. If she dosen't want 2 listen 2 U, or gets mad, maybe she's not a true friend.
2007-06-08 09:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by cheerforsoccer8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well sit down and tell her how you feel express and try to help her and let her know you that you are there to help her in time of need.show her how bad the relationship is true friends will tell there opptions even if there not the best ones to her.
2007-06-08 09:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her realize she is in a bad realtionship tell her all the reasons why you think she is in a bad realtionship. Thats pretty much all you can do you can't hold her against her will.
2007-06-08 09:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Tone Teezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have talked to your best friend.. there is not anything anyone can do. She or He has to find their own answers, unless he or she is being abused.. then you could talk to the police or crisis center in your town.
2007-06-08 09:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer your support. She will then know where you are if she needs you. Its best not to interfere too much as you could drive her away..Instead let her know you will help her out no matter what happens with this guy.
2007-06-08 09:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay out of it because you cannot help anyone that does not want to be helped . She will eventually see that this relationship is bad for her and get out of it herself . good luck .
2007-06-08 09:35:56 · answer #11 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋