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If they were openly gay and expressed interest in you? Would you date them?

2007-06-08 08:20:20 · 18 answers · asked by Moxie! 6 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

BTW, this was just a hypothetical question. I've never been in this situation, and if I was, I already know what I would do. I just wanted to see how other people feel about it.

2007-06-08 10:18:24 · update #1

18 answers

Sure..You are both adults

2007-06-08 08:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 3 2

Wow i'm unable to have faith a number of those solutions. they don't understand you so they have not any authentic to call you names. merely shows how immature some absolutely everyone seems to be. nicely I actual have on no account slept with a professor and interestingly like a stressful subject to be in. i think of you ought to easily tell him it could not take place returned. I advise i could merely keep it yalls secret and take a glance at to pass on from the errors. suitable of success :)

2016-11-27 03:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

NO, NO, NO!!! As a college administrator, let me say that sleeping with students is considered a professional and ethical taboo. The power differential in the relationship does not provide for a healthy foundation that leads to respect and love. A professor needs to look at his or her students like a doctor who looks at his or her patients: as people who came for professional service. Hitting on your students is NOT professional!

Do you want to date someone who is unprofessional and possibly unethical? Please don't risk your emotions in this way.

2007-06-08 10:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Greg C 3 · 2 0

Teacher-student, or more specifically professor-student, femmeslash fics are my guilty pleasure, heh.

But as to real life, I doubt I would have much qualms about having a relationship with my (hypothetical) college professor, assuming that it's a two-sided attraction. I wouldn't jump into bed with her, just as I wouldn't jump into the bed of any other woman.

Well, other than Kate Walsh.

2007-06-08 08:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Alqarine 2 · 1 2

you can get in some serious messes doing that if you are still a student. most faculty members have to follow a set of guidelines for fraternizing with students, and depending on the school, a relationship might be against their contract. this would hurt them more than you. however... of course... it happens. i think it's better to wait until you are not their student.

2007-06-08 10:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by thirty-one characters 4 · 1 1

I wouldn't have had a relationship with a professor if I were in her class. I'm sure most colleges punish such relationships and I wouldn't have wanted to jeopardize my education or her career.
I did have a str8 male professor come on to me, and he was quite polite about it. He was also ok with it when I told him I was gay and not interested. We actually became friends!
RIP old buddy, you were cool......

2007-06-08 08:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by FTW 7 · 3 2

Are you openly gay and would you get an A? If yes, take the roll in the hay

2007-06-08 08:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5 3

If someone I was interested in express interest back, then yes, I would date them. It doesn't matter what their profession is.

2007-06-08 08:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by gopher646 6 · 2 1

yes, but I would not let help or hinder my grades. Brains are a real turn on.
good luck

2007-06-08 09:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by kay b 5 · 1 0

I can't think of any professors that turned me on. The chemistry would have to be there and it just wasn't.

2007-06-08 08:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by jxt299 7 · 1 2

After the semester was over, maybe. Before that...just isn't ethical.

2007-06-08 08:23:23 · answer #11 · answered by Karibuboo 3 · 5 1

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