don't get me wrong, informing someone of a problem and asking for help is one thing, but when you have the complete ability to fix something for yourself why don't you instead of complaining and nagging other people
2007-06-08 07:54:03 · 8 answers · asked by her half dead lover 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Laziness, insecurity, the need for approval from others. But usually, just laziness and low will power. That's typically what prompts people to complain instead of just taking action and solving their own problems.
2007-06-08 07:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in complaining a lot, however there is a time and place to do it. For example, while eating at a local restaurant that gave us really bad service, the person with me didn't want to complain or say anything. I chose to complain. The manager was very apologetic and gave us a complimentary meal voucher if we would come back. No problems since then. Keep in mind that usually we complain just to hear ourselves.
2007-06-08 08:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right. But this leads to another view - that talking to onesself can be of benefit in this subject: If Im talking out loud going over a decision, just really getting a grasp of it this way , it gives one the answer. Therefore. no complaining is needed. bettyk
2007-06-08 08:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by elisayn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nagging other people is wrong I know..But complaining may show the other the limits of his rights.
2007-06-08 07:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't I go to the mall? Why can't my friends come over? Why does my boss pay me so low? Why?Why?Why?
Sometimes even adults feel like complaining. And that's just our nature to complain. for me, complaining doesn't get me anywhere, It just makes me whinier.
2007-06-08 08:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Yaasi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think its just a way to get out of doing something they don't want to do themselves...Lame I know,but often necessary if its a matter of teaching independence,as if to a child,but it can be a ploy on someones part to be just that = a lame excuse..=)
2007-06-08 08:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by *toona* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree. Complaining is fine. But when you complain about something that you don't intend to do something about, that's called whining. And whining is bad, mmmkay?
2007-06-08 08:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's fun to ***** and complain... it's how myself and my coworkers make it through the day!
2007-06-08 08:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by i_love_my_mp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋