that i would like her to play with my backdoor. what are some good things to start out with? i dont wanna scare her but i would like her to use a strap-on. any suggestions?
2007-06-08 07:10:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
be clean, be lubed, have fun.
2007-06-08 07:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
A guide to anal pleasure and safety. Your backdoor has an extremely thin tissue layer that can tear very easily and it is possible that it could lead to hemoraging. You can also bruise in there and that is VERY uncomfortable. So, definately take things slowly with a lot of warm up ^_~
try goodvibes.com for a book about anal sex health.
2007-06-08 07:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just a personal thought, and I might be wrong, as I often am, but it seems like guys who want someone to use a strap-on dildo on them would be much happier with a real guy using the real thing.
2007-06-08 08:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seriously... was this the first conversation about you coming out of the closet? Im not trying to be rude or cynical, but Im curious. If you want it from behind, are you bisexual?
Have you thought about that? Or is it just that women doing you in the rear turns you on.
Im sorry but Im a little bit confused...
2007-06-08 08:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kudos to you for being open about it. A lot of men won't experiment back there because they're afraid it leads into gay territory.
Lucky for you, the prostate, which is located inside of your "back door" is the most sensitive place on/in the male body. Make sure she keeps her finger/toy/whatever inside when you're about to c*m and you'll feel the best feeling you've ever felt. Enjoy!
2007-06-08 07:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by gopher646 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd start small if I were you; fingers, very slim vibros, possible the mini eggs and things like that. Make sure you have plenty of lube. Also, the more stimulated you are, the easier it is on both of you.
2007-06-08 07:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by lupinesidhe 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Play safely, use lots of lube and start with small objects to get both of you comfortable with the idea and the sensation.
2007-06-08 07:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by FTW 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could find an adult movie with such a scene and see how she reacts.
2007-06-08 07:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by Robin W 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
be clean be safe relax this should be fun
i have used aneros a plug design for men
they a pricey but worth it
visit there web site
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2007-06-08 07:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wear a ball gag. Buy her a Viking helmet. Then get a broom handle and go nuts.
2007-06-08 07:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Leonard Moo 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
why dont you have her lick you and then start finger play first. let her ease it on up. going straight to dil-do could cause her to think otherwise.
2007-06-08 07:17:37 · answer #11 · answered by cyguysd 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋