help need to get pregnant?

Question

I HAVE 2 KIDS 11 AND 7 MY HUSBAN WITCH IS NOT MY CHILDRENS FATHER WE ARE TRYING TO GET PREGNANT BUT NOTHING YET HE ALSO HAVE CHILDREN SO WE BOTH KNOW THAT WE CAN HAVE CHILDREN BUT FOR SOME REASON IM NOT GETTING PREGNANT HES GETTING WORRIED AND UPSET BECAUSE WE ARE TRYING TO GET PREAGNANT BEFOR I TURN 30 IM 27 KNOW CAN SOME ONE TELL ME ANY SPECIAL TECHNIQUES TO HELP ME.THANK YOU

Answer 1

Stressing over not getting pregnant can cause your body to not funtion properly.

First, calm down and relax. Schedule a weekend (while you are ovulating) with just you and hubby. Have some red grape juice (no wine) and a nice dinner. Then just enjoy each other for the whole weekend.

If this does not help, try to get in contact with a doctor. Even though you both are capable of having children, you may just need a little help this time.

Hope all goes well for ya!

Answer 2

tell him by GETTING WORRIED AND UPSET, will not happen, you both need to relax , it will happen sooner or later, especially you both have no problem what so ever, you guys already have beautiful healthy kids, and it is nice because you want more, but relax, if you ask any doctors in the world will tell you both nothing wrong with you , you just need to relax. and what is the deal that you must get pregnant before you turn 30 ???? it does not make sense at all i got pregnant when i was 32 years old. and if you have read the news lately a woman at the age of 50 give birth to a child good luck my dear and tell the husband that relax man, nothing will happen by stressing or getting upset good luck to you both have fun and enjoy it .

Answer 3

Wow, you're 27 and have an 11 year old child. Anyway, fertility isn't guaranteed even if you have already had children. I have a friend who tried for 13 years to get pregnant with her husband, she cheated with a one night stand and got pregnant. You should consider yourself blessed to have had the opportunity to have children already, when so many don't. If you and your husband don't have any luck getting pregnant after six months of trying it's time to see a fertility specialist and get a full work up to possibly determine what is going on. Good luck!

Answer 4

Tell your husband not to worry, pregnancy takees time. It took me over 3 years to fall pregnant naturally and there was nothing wrong with my husband or myself. If you are worried about fertility, he should get as sperm test and you could get tested as well as there is such a thing as secondary infertility.

Are you having sex at the right time of month. Read up on the billings method, it is highly effective at recognizing your high fertility times.

Also, I believe the stress of trying was the reason it took me so long. As soon as I was distracted (a lot of other things were going on and I actually didn't try that month) I fell pregnant, do not underestimate the power of stress.

Also, caffiene for him helps sperm motility.
Sperm cannot swim through lubricant.
Relax, relax and relax. 27 is young, you have plenty of time.
only 80% of healthy couples who have sex at the correct time each month fall pregnant within 12 months.

Good luck, I know it is hard.

Answer 5

I have two kids 6 years apart with both of them I took birth control for 3 months and then quit and was pregnant within 2 months. In between the 2 I never used any kind of birth control.

Answer 6

You've got 3 years before you turn 30. If you've gone more than 6 months without getting pregnant, see your ob/gyn for advice. Other than that, keep trying - having sex only the day before, the day of and the day after you ovulate.

Answer 7

Stop trying and focus on other things and then it will happen. All your doing is creating stress which is causing you not to ovulate or ovulating late.Once your body is calmed and not stressed out you would be surprised how fast it will happen.

Answer 8

Clomid

Answer 9

Hey just wanted to stop by and wish you GOOD LUCK!