Touching boobs when dancing?

Question

I am learning to dance salsa. The problem is my body coordination is rather poor that when trying some moves i keep grabbing on the girls' wrong part (breast). Should I say sorry or just keep dancing or ... ? Girls, when this happen, do you take it with a grain of salt?

Oh, and have you ever dance salsa with those girls with prominent *assets*, then you must know what I mean. So salsa dancers, uhm, boobjobs may not be for you.

Answer 1

Ummmm i suggest saying sorry and keep dancing, especially if you didnt intentionally mean to do it. If you are dancing or learning something else and this happens, most of the time people brush it off and know it was an accident. Unless you actually grabbed and squezzed, then I would take offence to that. Good luck with that issue. :)

Answer 2

I understand that in salsa there are a lot of moves where the accidental touching is possible, but if you're talking about "grabbing" then you're obviously doing something wrong.

If you are taking a class then try talking to the teacher about this and maybe she can give you some advice. Just always be aware of your hands...and her boobs. Well, I take that back because then not only would you be touching them, you'd be looking at them too.

If this happened to me while dancing I might let it go once or give him a look, but if it kept happening I would give him a talk.

I hoped this helped, good luck!

Answer 3

You can get thrown out of the club for that. If it happens to you often maybe you should learn how to avoid this common mistake of yours? Try keeping your hands at her waist or her shoulder level, and not anywhere else, ever.
I don't understand how *grabbing* can take place in salsa. I hope you mean accidental touch.

If she obviously noticed it, say sorry. If she pretended that she didn't notice - just keep on dancing.
If it happens more than once during the same dance I'd no longer view it accidental and I would avoid this guy in the future.

Answer 4

If it happens very often, just stop saying sorry because it could get annoying... Just keep dancing.. Girls can see the difference between a guy who's being fresh with her or a guy who accidentally grazed her boob... The girl you are dancing with can probably tell that it was a simple accident and it will not concern her.. now if shes dancing with some guy and he just grabs her boob, that will not be taken lightly, and he would probably get slapped a second later..

Anyways, don't sweat it.. in no time you'll get the hang of it and you won't make this unintentional grab mistake anymore
Have fun =]

Answer 5

If you are touching or grabbing a woman's breasts with your hand, you are not dancing properly. Take some dance lessons and learn to dance. Develop some coordination.

I know women who would deck you for touching their breasts as you described. A knee in the groin or a broken nose may motivate you to learn how to dance properly.

Answer 6

I'm sure thats very common in salsa dancing. Just don't worry about it and just keep going. They probably think it's no big deal because it always happens in that type of dancing.

Answer 7

Say sorry quickly but don't dwell on it. Or maybe warn the lady ahead of time you're new to this dance. Everyone makes mistakes so I take everything with a grain of salt.

Answer 8

There is always some suspicion in the girls mind as to wether you did it on accident or not. The best way to handle it is to say a quick sry and give an embarrased smile. Dont over do the apoligy but dont just say nothing. Also a good way to get rid of ackwardness is to bring it out in the open. After you say sry you could be like, that was ackward, and brush it off. I hope this helped.

Answer 9

hehehehe

well i wouldn't mind if i knew you didn't do it on purpose
but if it repeats more than 5 times, then i would give u a bitchy look and i wouldn't want to dance with u anymore

it is ok to hold from her waist, her shoulders, arms or neck, but boobs.... :D
just say sorry after the 3rd time and try to avoid it as much as u can!

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