question about a early birth problem?

Question

im 16, i was born 3 months early so im a premy, my heart stopped 4 times, i have a well i guess a slight rib disforety, and i dont like it at all, it doesnt hurt physically, just mentally, i dont like to take my shirt off in front of girls, need advice and help on wut i should do

i just found out im going to a oropedic doctor on monday, to look at it and my spine, if i want to get it fixed, wut will it have to take?

Answer 1

take off your shirt and learn to make it a fun experience like the people on tv who have silly talents. If you can do that with the people who you hang with then it will be easier for you to go shirtless when you are around other people. I bet it isn't as bad looking as you think. We are always more critical of ourselves than anyone else. Let me know how it goes.

Answer 2

So keep your shirt on and don't worry about it. Unless you're at a beach or pool, you need not take your shirt off. However, I doubt anyone but you will care. In fact, it might get girls to ask, then you can start up a conversation...and who knows?

Answer 3

my daughter was born 3 months early as well shes only 7 years old though. she has chest tube scars which she doesn't seem to like. you're unique no reason to be embarrassed about it. to be honest you're lucky to be alive... just like my daughter is lucky to be alive. but you are making the right choice to see a doctor about it if it makes you that uncomfortable :)

Answer 4

I am glad you are going to a doctor to get advice on your problem. People on this site simply are not qualified, trained, or licensed to give you medical advice. Your doctor is. Good for you, and good luck!!

Chow!!

Answer 5

oh..so much complications now...that is why it is said..hurry makes everything spoiled...why u came 3 months before your scheduled of nine month....do not mind but ... I am kidding...be happy and do no despair...everything will be alright...this helpdesk will help u a lot..so just wait for reply from the expert...