2007-06-08 01:33:39 · 25 answers · asked by Uncle B2 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It would break my heart, but yes, I would if that would ease
the hardship my friend was going through.
I would always have a spark of hope though, that the
friend would come back.
Hugs,
2007-06-08 03:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand the question but let me see if this is what you're looking for.
Just recently my friendship with my best friend from high school (been friends more than 10 years) took a turn for the worse. He has been ignoring me, and standing me up constantly. So it was causing me lots of stress and anxiety. So I walked away, telling him he could only look me up when he stopped being so selfish. So he walked away from our friendship. It made me fee like he didn't really appreciate those ten years. It was much easier for him to walk away free of responsibility than change his behavior. So if you're causing someone a hardship, I say you try to work on solving the problem and not on walking away because you might make the other person feel that they're were not important enough to work on the problem.
2007-06-08 08:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would not want to cause the person pain or hardship.
2007-06-08 08:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by ldg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I just recently did it and it was hard at first. I felt like I had done the wrong thing, or that I might be missing out. However, 3 days later, I know I have made the right decision for me.
If it was meant to be, it will be!
2007-06-08 08:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by badradrider 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if it was the best thing to do for that person...its such a difficult sitation but if you are close friends, then you should already know what is best both of you... if its continually full of hardship maybe a break would be better?
2007-06-08 08:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by PLANET ROGUE-POP: 1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* Just yesterday I had one of my best friends tell me he was all of a sudden "uncomfortable." Gosh.... I would never want someone I care so much about to feel that way about being near me. We always laugh and act like insane idiots...... but something has made him feel.... "Uncomfortable." I could talk to him about it until I'm blue in the face but it is something he needs to figure out and understand for himself. So yes.... *sigh*..... I told him I had to go. When you realize you are causing feelings that you so don't intend to cause..... well...... I guess I felt it was my duty as his friend to help those feelings go away. And at this point....... I think distance is the only way. Man it sucks........ it hurts like hell....... and I'm so freaking miserable. But if this helps him...... then yeah..... I have to do it. *sigh*
2007-06-08 08:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try to work and ease the hardship of my friend
2007-06-08 08:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My love for that person would be such that I would not want anything to cause them grief. Even if it meant us no longer being friends.
2007-06-08 08:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by scubadiverMS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would try my best to rectify that hardship if it's within my power, if it's not, i would walk away. sad though.
2007-06-08 08:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by naj.ss86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably distance myself, yes. If you are truly friends, things will work out in the end.
2007-06-08 08:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋