I am a teenager guy....... I am very confused...... I have never done anything wrong with my classmates..... But still they are teasing me to much..... Please give me suggestions how to stop them teasing??? thanks.......
2007-06-07 21:53:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't control others. But you can ruin their fun.
If you show that things bother you, people will keep doing it. You must be able to agree to their face, then it becomes no fun for them.
It will make you strong being able to take yourself lightly also.
"You like farts"
"yum!" should be your reply, then walk off laughing. - they don't know what to do when you g et joy from their jabs.
2007-06-07 22:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lyrad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what it feels like to be in that situation. You should be really pleased that he respects you in that way. Personally, the teasing made me feel guilty so i made it stop, but that doesn't have to be the same for you it all depends on how you two both feel about this. It sounds like you are not 100% ready and if you continue to communicate with him i'm sure that things will be put at ease. I'm sure you will know when you are ready...have a funny feeling something is holding you back and that's why you are not interested in sexual activities. Maybe you could sort that out first and see where things go from there. Maybe take some time out for yourself and have a little think about things. Best of luck
2016-05-19 21:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who is very dear to me and who had the same problem as you. He too could not understand why kids teased him all the time. We experimented then. I asked him to smile or laugh at those who teased them from that time. He tried, although it was hard for him but before long, you know what? Those kids who were teasing him and even getting rough with him at times, became his best friends. They still tease him about the times they teased him and he laughs and they all laugh. Try it kid - this works.
The reason for the ongoing teasing is that you react to their taunts and teases. That gives them a high. Teenagers can be really cruel at times. The key to the problem therefore is that you do not react in the way that they expect you to - that is, dont show any anger. Smile or laugh as though you are laughing at yourself.
Good Luck and let me know how it works. But be sure to give it some time.
2007-06-09 00:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Trouble at all. They tease you since you allow yourself to be teased.
The people who tease you take pleasure in the fact that you are so adversely affected by their teasing. It gives them the sense of power. If you show that you are not affected by their teasing, you take that power and motivation away from them to tease you
If you stop giving attention, stop feeling bad, stop responding they will stop teasing, The effects will be visible to you within a week.
Even after that it doesn't happen (some people are very pesistant), you have the option of taking a two by four and hitting them squarely with it.
2007-06-07 22:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by APS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey big trouble,
its not at all a big trouble. wut u have written is a very very normal thing and at early age it happens also with mostly every body only thing is we dont come to know ,about other peoples problems . just be conversant with other friend s of urs, find out .and dont take everything on heart .n be serious.
another thing is teasing can be done just to pass the time , or may be just like that , or may be if ulike some body and want tohave coversation ,and so.many people have different way of teasing , so dont ever get confused.
never ever think that they r teasing u because u have something wrong in u or less in u .try to think +ve.
try to be freindly with soem one of them ,and have communication to find out . so these r the ways another thing u also can pull some bodys leg u also canhave fun. but be confident .be sure that u wont show them anything if hurt u,never show them u r confused . and let me know for wut r they teasing wut r their words , or action.
so here after be confident that ther is nothing wrong in u, just find out wuts their intenssion in tesing u ? is it anything from above? and feel relax while tlking tothem.
best of luck .u can do it .
2007-06-08 20:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by roshuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them tease, if u do not have generally any shortcomings then, they tease u, they pick on u, because they love u. U will feel lonely and neglected if they don't tease u. Within limits, it is better if they tease u.
2007-06-08 00:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the former answerer, but in addition try to score better marks then them or study hard so as to give the best answer whenever your teacher ask Qs in the class so that they feel themself inferior and useless before you.-----it also works in the long run.
2007-06-09 06:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bud I was the same way at that age I even had my own family members making fun of me. What you need to do is realize that they are jealous of you. It sounds dumb I know, also just remember "that which does not kill you, only makes you stronger." Be tough and confident, and act like you don't care and they will respect you afterwards.
2007-06-07 22:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jacob P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when u show ur bothered or afraid, would they do it more. Just avoid them or better show deaf ears. Make new friends at class and hangout with them. In a class atleast one or two might be interested in your friendship. i mean the quiet ones.
2007-06-07 22:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anastasia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on ..y do u bother about others comments on u, if u stop bothering about their teasing sure they wont continue it, try this...sure they will feel bad for teasing u one day
2007-06-08 01:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by bubbly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋