I feel like i'm slowing dieing inside and im not ready to die....?

Question

I have dreams but im always sick...... please someone just help me feel good about myself before i just give up thanks!


"Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen...others make it happen. DESIRE"



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Answer 1

My wife went through a bad period of depression a couple of years ago and one day she said to me through her tears "I feel like I'm dying on the inside". It was so sad, I just heled her and told her how important she was in my life. When she went to see her counselor, she told him about this feeling and he said something quite profound. He said "sometimes it's necessary to let the old you go so the new you can take over and start a new chapter in your life". That helped her so much and she realized that this was a huge changing time in her life and she was able to deal with things a lot better. You aren't dying, but some of who or what you used to be is gone and now you are making room for a new version of you to emerge....better than ever, yet different. Think about it and I hope it helps you like it did my wife. Take care and feel better.

Answer 2

Looking around you if all you seem to see is dark you need to find a window. There is light if you open up to it. Depression is a powerful thing to fight - but fighting it is what you must do. Seems like you know the right way from what you have written but maybe feel a bit too tired to take that road. Remember that every single step you take is a step closer to the life you want and even if one step is all you can manage today that's okay as long as tomorrow you make at least one more. I know depression well and sickness is all too much a part of it. I know too that you can walk away from it - one step at a time. Your life is worth it and you can succeed! You are in my thoughts!

Answer 3

These feelings that you have are normal. But i have to tell you that only you can make yourself feel better. If you have the drive and notion that you want to live..that there is a life out there and you want to be a part of it..then that's a start.

Before depression starts seeping in you..get off your mood swing and do something positive..something happy..even mundane..like planting a flower or petting a cat and getting some licks on your face..blowing a balloon and letting it fly off in the breeze..watching a butterfly in the park...just simple things..that have life and puts a smile on your face.

Remember..others cant make it happen..only you can..
Take Care.

Answer 4

if you've got no hopes to go on living, look in your soul and ask if god is really there, you'll find hopes to go on living.

Writing down what you feel n think in your diary can help you feel that somehow you feel lighter as if something heavy's been taken off your shoulders. Write them all down even if you don't know what you're thinking or feeling.
or you could try taking a spring bath or try wild rides in amusement parks or try the hunted house and scream as much as u can even if you know teh scary things are fake.
if u see a scary mummy coming towards you-don't run away; scream loudly and keep smashing it.
okay does this help?? no??
Aigoo..anyway i'll let you know this; i don't know who you are, where you are from, how you look like and knowing that we are absolutely strangers with no relation at all, I would still say that I care for you and would like you to go on finding beautiful things and not just seeing the negatives- so don't give up ^ ^

people say life is too precious to give away-but the choice is yours but remember though; you're HISTORY if you end it
-anyways you heard of "ying and yang"???I belive life is somewhat like ying and yang.

Answer 5

You're not slowly dying !!! You're depressed Those dreams you are having, always being sick, is because you're not happy in your life & it's transferring to your dreams.
Try & get some counseling..maybe an antidepressant medication. That did me a world of good. Those meds help you get back to a normal way of thinking & realize the blessings that you do have. Get some help. I wish you well.

Answer 6

I think if you feel that overwhelmed you should seek professional help or talk to someone that could get you help.

The only advice I could give you is to understand that everyone goes through trials and tribulations. Not to feel hopeless because if you keep your head up things will turn our ok. I think everyone in this earth including you has mission and plan that we are pre-destined to follow, if we give up and quit we are robbing ourselves of happiness, joys, and laughter and we are also robbing the world of the lesson you could teach.

I think that if you feel unhappy for a long period of time you should definitely seek help Good Luck.

Answer 7

Start to live! Do things that are not harmful and that make you happy enjoy life, be thankful for the moments you have. Truly experience your days and focus on the positive of each situation. Death is inevitable but right now you can make the choice to live. :)

Answer 8

yes its true.everybody slowing die but its mean not that everytime think about death.life means live everything have two side in world like man women bad and good so life and death if you chosse one second come itself.why you worry about death if you want to get rid of this than try to know what is death if it is true then why worry. you will die no body there to think and to take tension that i have died.and if you wil be there alive after death then why worry. you can take you havent died you are alive it is if death come.but syill you alive so enjoy keep smiling everything for you in this world.birds,sun ,moon, stars,trees,flower,and some of me and more friends who answer just for you.

Answer 9

Lets see how badly you want this help you ask for.
You need to find a way to help others. call "The united way" and do volunteer work, work with old folk, help the homeless, get a service job of some kind. In helping others you will help yourself. Good luck.

Answer 10

When in hell do as the romans did...
When in hell ask a wise man howd you get here?
When in hell yell fire and watch as nobody runs for the exit.

When in hell Hope and you might find a way out.