I have 2 beautiful friends. **Ash & Caitlin **
But one thinks she is ugly.
Ash has biger boobs, hugs allot of people, is small and has great hair....and most guys like her coz shes hot
Caitlin is sad about this.
She doesnt think its fair that all the guys like ash coz shes hot.
Please help
How can i deal with the situation
I think caitlin is pretty tho
** Fake names**
2007-06-07 20:54:24 · 7 answers · asked by Froot Loops =] 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I think you need to hold off on girls for a while and just play with your PlayStation you winnie! =<)
2007-06-07 21:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would inform her that the word "all" is a non scientific term unless she can interview every guy in the world for their opinion or can read all their minds. Therefore, I would ask how can she know that all guys like top heavy females. (According to my husband and brothers, some guys are attracted to boobs while others are not.)
Ash's outgoing personality could be attraction, yet do not advise Caitlin to hug people if it is not her personality to do so.
I would tell her try not to think of it as unfair, because "hot" females are often viewed as objects rather than people.
Standards of "hotness" change. Have her to look at her old year books or magazines and compare the standards for hotness for people of yesteryear with those of today. Therefore, Caitlin may be "hot" in another 10 years while Ash may not be.
I would tell her to love Ash, because hot people can have problems.
In the big scheme of things, it does not matter that a large number of guys finds her attractive. It only matters that she is happy with herself and her future husband finds her attractive.
2007-06-08 04:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by metamorphosisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she's got to know and act hot before anybody else 'buys' the idea. Humans are really odd in that we're unconscious of the body language we send out when we're uncomfortable about ourselves. If she's sitting there thinking she's ugly, then she's probably acting ugly too (being distant from people because she's projecting ugliness, thinking that they think she's ugly when that's not reality). Tell her that Ash is hott because she owns it, and that you're waiting for her to own her spotlight. See, it works from the inside out. There are lots of beautiful people in the world who are constantly told that they are ugly, and lots of ugly people told that they are beautiful. As great as it is to have people say "she's hott", be sure to tell her it can be just as empty. You can't solve all of your problems by looking better.
2007-06-08 04:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by Obscure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not good to be the third wheel in a friendship, I don't think that what you ladies have is true friendship, because true friend never get jealous of the achievements of Friends, one piece of advice thou try not to make any comment against both of your friends because they might use it as an ammunition against you someday and make it appear that you were the one who started the fight. Instead play up the good points you're friends have to make them feel better about themselves.
2007-06-08 04:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by ANDREW B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her, she's pretty and ash is only beautiful because she shows it to the people. and as for caitlin, see how you notice she is pretty without her emphasizing it. right?
2007-06-08 04:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Pringles 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
remind her the true beauty is from within..there will be a guy that like her for who she are..plus,guys' attention are not everything.
2007-06-08 04:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by Maria 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her you think she is pretty
2007-06-08 03:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋