One of my girl friends (who is fairly good looking )and I work part time at our local video store. Sometimes she wears v-neck shirts,(not very low at all) . She is a very firm 32b cup.Sometimes she will go braless and when she leans over the counter to ring out the movies,she gives her customer an eye full.I don't think she is doing it on purpose, because she mostly dresses normal and really never wears anything that would make you give her a second look. do you think it is on purpose, or should I tell her?
2007-06-07 16:49:25 · 33 answers · asked by barefootinkelly 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I would tell her - she's your friend.
You could say it jokingly - sort of tease her about giving that customer an eyeful. Perhaps if she has any modesty she'll take the hint and decide to not wear that particular shirt without a bra...
2007-06-07 16:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jean C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would very gently tell her. You would want to know if you were doing that, right? Just say,"______, you've been a great friend to me, and I feel you deserve to know you shirt shows off a little too much to people you wouldn't want to let think you were like that. They might assume the wrong thing, and I know you are smart and too nice of a person to get that reputation,_______. You might want to consider wearing a bra more often, or wear a higher-cut shirt if you are bending over. I just really thought you probably didn't realize this ws happening, and you definitely should know. I know I've done it before, and I wish someone told me I was hanging out!"
Even if you never had it happen, it will make her feel less embarrassed if you say you made the same mistake once. It makes her feel less like you are picking on her and making light of yourself .
2007-06-07 17:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very nicely, for one, asserting you're prettier than her and proper to the compliments...it is basically mean. you may desire to no longer say issues like that. Secondly, each now and then, it relies upon on what you're donning. Your breasts look a certian way once you do and don't have a bra on, and no count what length your breasts are, do no longer you already know later that they could no longer look so um...perky because you do no longer placed on a bra? regrettably for me, if i don't have a bra on, I observe in the present day because of the fact I even have 38C-D breasts and it incredibly is notably noticable. do exactly one concern: on your very own homestead, you could proceed to be as braless as you desire, yet once you flow out along with your chum, attempt protecting it on. no longer basically will or no longer it incredibly is type which you may do some thing like that for her, besides the fact that it is going to additionally help you interior the long-term. have confidence me...without a bra, you will sag later!
2016-11-27 01:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume your friend is not dumb. She knows very well what men are looking for when given a chance at a glance and she does not object. . I have done it more than once - I know. It's her life - just let her be. Unless a customer complains - then perhaps the management should have a talk with her to cover up a little bit more.
2007-06-07 17:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend. That's what true friends are for. Maybe it's just something that she has never thought about in the clothing department and being around customers. Tell her before someone else contacts the manager and reports her, then she just may be without a job.
2007-06-07 16:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she does it on purpose. Many women with smalll breasts feel as if they don't have to wear bras (Boy they are gonna regret that in their late 30's and 40's). Just fill her in. If she sincerely wasn't trying to give them an eyeful, she will stop. If she doesn't, then the woman knows what she is doing.
2007-06-07 16:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Boo Bee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, tell her. Once in high school my Spanish teacher had that very same problem. All the boys would call her over, so that when she leaned down they could get a free show. Once me and a mate of mine told her, she was embarrassed but very grateful for us telling her.
2007-06-07 16:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Pacer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's your friend I would just make a joke about it and let her know at the same time. Something like " Hey you need to put those away before you poke an eye out" I know this sounds juvenile but humor might work.
2007-06-07 16:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nika 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The next time she does it go over to her and tell her that you could see her goods when she leans over and that you just want to let her know.
2007-06-09 17:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not wearing a bra I expect she knows that people can see her breasts when she leans over. Then again anyone can see anyone's breasts when they lean over, bra or not, it's just the level of coverage that varies.
I wouldn't bother mentioning it. If she was self conscious, she'd wear a bra. She's obviously comfortable with her body.
If you really must mention it, then just make a little joke about her showing herself off, and see how she reacts.
2007-06-07 16:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by raindreamer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋