Why women refuse to have sex with a man who is not emotionally connected to her?

Answer 1

because of the psychological way both males & females are wired.

you see the male looks at a female the male human instint is to look for a woman that can bear a child. ie. but, hips.
nurture a child ie. breast. that is why men are turned on by looking at this anatomy it is wired deep down. why do guys like breast? no one can say but it shows that the woman is more capable of nuturing the child.... the milk looks like it is there.

women on the other hand look for an emotional connection because they are wired in a way in which they want the man to be able to provide for her & protect her ie why women like men that are strong for protection or resourceful to provide food for her & her potential child if she is having sex. also an emotional connetion shows that the male would care for the child & take part in development of child. even thou a woman may have sex & not want to get pregnet the thought of the act is wired deep in the womans psyche.

hope this helps,

SS

Answer 2

Maybe you're just not hanging around in the right places?

In my experience, I've known both women and men who have sex with no emotional connection. I've also known both men and women who preffered to have some kind of emotional connection before they had sex.

If you get really desperate, there's always prostitutes....

Answer 3

Because she is not attracted to him. No offense intended but is it really so hard to understand that he could look like Johnny Depp and have a personality that she doesn't get all hot and bothered for?

The best sex will always be that which is had with someone we find psychologically attractive. Physical attraction ceases to exist as soon as you close your eyes.

Answer 4

I married the guy of my desires. My severe college sweetheart with whom I had had a fairy tale romance. We lost touch and for 23 years went our separate techniques. He had a courting of 14 years, I had a marriage of a similar form of years. destiny introduced us mutually and we rekindled our courting. He exchange into residing foreign places and located me. We reunited and it exchange into as though time had stood nonetheless. presently into our courting he proposed marriage. I customary. We have been given pregnant real away and likewise real away he regarded at. not extra intimacy, no affection. He became me away each threat he ought to. there have been situations I have been given offended, depressed, and bored. I even have tried each thing one ought to think of. Years went via. Threats made and suspicions printed. not something replaced him. Now, 12 years in, i hit upon out that he flew a woman to our homestead state (i exchange into away) and had a 2 day affair together with her. It exchange into premeditated and at a time on a similar time as i exchange into susceptible. i'm now with a continual ailment and 12 years older than i exchange into. I haven't any way of turning back the clock. My husband needs my forgiveness. i'm dying . i can t come across a thank you to get previous this. I don t want him to go through, yet i want him to experience/ to attain my soreness. i'm on the course now to self destruct. he thinks i'm overreacting. he's an in any different case sturdy guy who works difficult and is honest and being concerned. He says it exchange right into a mistake. nonetheless, i'm unable to pass forward. Can somebody please help me make experience of this?

Answer 5

Unlike Greymalkin, man hater, and her blatantly sexist comments I can say there are differences between men and women that have nothing to do with "men, who are willing to screw barnyard animals and knotholes in trees" as Greymalkin puts it.

You keep talking like that and you only hurt the rest of us and you will never get a man, or do you want one ?

Answer 6

Most women are not like this. Often times, they are better at being players than men are. They can be very cold if necessary.

Answer 7

No one wants to be used like a toy.

Answer 8

FIRST IS ONLY EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT THAN ONLY WE CAN DISCUSS ABOUT SEX. IN EVEN ANIMAL MALE WIN FEMALE HEART FOR SEX.

Answer 9

Because she knows you want to use her/them for sex. Women arent stupid you know.

Answer 10

not all women do this u knw ....may be she is in love and thinking abt marraige and kids .!! pretty scary huh ,....belive me if any women wants to have sex she never thinks too much .!!