I will get to wear some silver dangely earrings and a peal necklace. I'll make 1000 dollars for a shoot of twenty pics. It will be breasts and face only. Should I do it? He's already showed me some he's done before and their tasteful. I'm just about a month under 18 . Should I go for it?
(notes: he's also under 18, We're dating, it will be done in black and white in 1920's style. He doesn't own a scanner or digital camera so there's no way it will get online unless he borrows mine. )
Should I do it?
2007-06-07 13:24:15 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can bet he knows somebody who has a scanner. And he'll probably show them to his friends. And what happens to them if you break up and he's really mad at you? Shall I go on?
2007-06-07 13:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know i dont know whether you totally do trust this guy but if i were a girl the first thing that would've came into my mind is; if he is under 18 then why does he need porn photos and if you guys are dating and he is going to pay 1000 $ i would probably have a second thought because would a couple that love eachother be paying eachother large amounts of money?????? girl don't be stupid because every women `must now that they are worth more than 1000 $ or any man that for some apparent reason wants your photos in the nude. you have to know WHY does he need your photos and you have to ask why would he a loving person that is dating you wish to pay you money; i mean do loving people pay eachother money to do things that they want. If you love eachother if you have some kind of feelings for eachother typically you would do it for free. And since he doesn't have a scanner and whatever how do you know he's not lying how do you know he won't just go to his friends house or whatever and send over to the internet????? Come on !!! Once you give information of yourself in anyway then it is lost and you can't bring it back. and besides if he does put your photos in public display and your under 18 even now its gonna be a big waste of money and time to go to court and sue. i would not do it if i were you unless your that type of person whom would do anything for money and if you are thinking of money instead of love in your relationship with this guy then thats a big red card signaling oh! oh! this guy ain't good. DONT DO IT
2007-06-15 09:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is like selling your soul to the devil for $1000.You are not the only one in the world that owns a scanner and a digital camera. He can get that from any one.You are eighteen and have many many years to go in life so do not blow it away for $1000 .Some day you will have to pay a personal price for the so called tasteful 20 breasts and face shots. So do not shot yourself.
2007-06-15 03:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by thumba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me sugar this will worry you later in life. You will always wonder if those pics will turn up a the wrong time in your life. Maybe your kids or parents or someone else you do not want to see them will somehow see them. These type of thoughts will haunt you for a long time. Sure it would be fun and profitable now but consider the worth in the long run before you make a move. Can you handle it if the pics do somehow show up on the net.
2007-06-14 02:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lil ole me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 21:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! There is no guarantee that no one else will see it and you never know where or when this particular piece of your history will pop up. Think way ahead on this one. What if no one ever sees it and you get all the copies? your son/daughter/niece/nephew is rummaging through some of your stuff, (snooping as kids do) and finds it? you will be mortified!
Or what if you and your current bf don't make it? you marry someone else and make a name for yourselves? where do you think these pics will come up?
other than these scenarios, you are still under 18 and it is illegal to take these photos.
But do you really think he won't show ANYONE? also why would he pay you if he has no other motive to take them? are you sure he won't sell them to a nude magazine?
2007-06-15 08:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by † Seeker of Truth † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. As long as you tell yourself that you will not mind if they do show up online someday. He could always BUY a scanner in the future.
Actually wait a minute, I've changed my mind. DON'T. I should have taken your age into more consideration. First off it's illegal;. What does he do with the pics? And not only that, you're only 17 and you never know what one day you'll become or want to be. Movie star, politician, government agent, etc.... do you really want pics that you took so early in life as a mistake to haunt you somewhere down the road and possibly jeopardize a dream career?
2007-06-07 13:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ivana Cracker 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Get the money first
Ask to keep the jewelry :)
And only if you are sure and comfortable doing it.
And don't forget to take into consideration 10-20 yrs from now, what will he do with the pics and how it could effect you!
(i took some crazy pics with my best friend when i was 17. Now I'm 23 and her ex still has the pics. So i never know what he will do with them. So be sure first)
2007-06-13 04:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're 18, that way there will be no problems with legality. Also, if you an maybe talk to some of the other girls/women he's done photos of, you can make sure he was professional with them. Finally, make sure you sign contracts limiting what he can do with the photographs so that you make sure he only uses the photos for artistic and not pornograpic uses.
But I say if you're comfortable with it, do it. Just make sure you protect yourself so you don't end up having problems down the road.
2007-06-12 21:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not do it. seriously. even if it sounds tasteful, you will be surprised how easily these things can leak out to the general population. many times, especially if you are looking to work in something having to do with the government, seemingly innocent photos such as this can be found and ruin your chances at getting a job. even though it sounds tasteful, you do not want to be putting your future into the hands of a boy that you are dating currently. if you break up in the future, and it is messy, a mere $1000 isn't going to buy you back a reputation.
2007-06-07 13:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Shellular Kellular 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't...for a couple of reasons. First, you never know what will happen to the pictures. Even if he doesn't have a scanner or digital camera, that doesn't mean he couldn't have someone else do it for him. Right now, you're dating, so you probably can't imagine him ever wanting to hurt you, but you never know what's going to happen in the future - and pictures like that could really cause you problems - damage your career, ruin other relationships, etc. Plus you're underage...yikes! Don't do it!!
2007-06-07 13:30:06 · answer #11 · answered by Julianne 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋