do woman like men to be older but not their age or younger?

Question

I feel sick seindg young woman lying about their age when they are like 15 and pretend to be 18 or 19 and be oledr men or woman in their 20s marryiend or dating men in their 40s and 50s.I heard some of them say men or boys their age or younger are stupid and inmature but older en are more mature and smart,but their is one thing i believe older men are ****** ugly.Im 18 can i date or marry a woman who is 20 or in her early 30s maybe not because to them im young inmature and stupid.

Answer 1

Women want both the sophistication and wisdom (and money) of older men, but at the same time they want youthful energy and sex drives of younger men. Usually if older women are going for really young guys, its only for the physical aspect of the relationship. Older men fulfill the mental part of women's needs because they are more emotionally developed and stable.

Answer 2

I think it's interesting the way society accepts much older men with much younger women but not the other way around. When a woman dates a younger man, people stare and whisper. I know, I'm married to a woman 15 years older than me and we have a great, strong relationship. We get looks sometimes, but my wife is young looking and gorgeous and I'm proud she's with me! I think the older you get, the less age matters to you. It's more about the person, their interests, what you have in common and how well you get along. We are best friends and do everything together. Hang in there. Once you go off to college or get out in the real working world, you will meet plenty of new, interesting people. I'll never understand the young girls who are dying to be older and then a few years later, they wish they were young again. It's crazy!

Answer 3

Younger women who choose to be with older men do so because they can. True, there are older men who chase young women for a lot of reasons. We are sold on youth by society, that some don't buy into it is the reason some marriages last so long. Some men are trying to recapture youth, that's true too. Some young girls may be genuinely attracted or they may be trying to recapture what they really felt for their fathers. Who knows and who cares?