Can we please not ask vulgar questions? C'mon, this is just sick.
2007-06-07 12:49:52
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answer #1
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answered by Angelheart♥ 5
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i would say being raped would be better just because you are scarred for life but you get to be with your family. being murdered would be worse because they could kill you slowly. or they could rape you and then kill you. by the way to whoever said murder would be better, think about goin' out like this: you get raped. they take a knife and start cutting off your fingers and your toes, then go for your arms and legs. all while you are screaming in pain but no one can hear you. then they abandon you and set the place on fire, you would die scared and alone. this is what i am afraid of the most and i hope that no one has to go through this but you never know with the freaks in the world today.
2007-06-14 15:19:49
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answered by Zoey 2
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Actually, the question is a good one. I have met a young woman who suffered a rape and even with years of counseling is unable to communicate as she was before. She lives basically in a silence that only she knows. She will not speak. Her life to her is over. In a sense, when she was raped, the rapist - did murder her - he killed her desire to live, her desire to prosper and to develop, he killed her will to develop and become someone who could make a mark on the world. However, for me, a rape would not kill me. I would be able to bounce back because I know this is only my body, the real me is a spirit and there is nothing that anyone can to do my spirit. I also know that to be absent from the body (dead) is to be present with the Lord - but that is my belief. I would not suffer either tribulation.
2007-06-07 14:10:40
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answered by THE SINGER 7
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For the ones who choose murder, that is very selfish when you consider the ongoing trauma to family,loved ones,friends, etc.as horrible and traumatic as rape is, if I had to choose I would choose it because many it has happened to have, with councelling and love af family,gotten beyhond it and went on to make a life whereas-once dead, forever gone from those near and dear to you. Don't give a murderer that eternal power over you. God is in control of when we are born and when we die. I was attacked by a would be rapist but screamed and he ran but I can imagine the trauma-I would still choose it but pray God you never have to endure it.
2007-06-14 19:05:54
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answered by marlynembrindle 5
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Very hard difficult question. Both take away precious things forcibly. I think being murdered would be worse as a person can be raped but still be a survivor whereas once you're dead there is no fighting back.
2007-06-15 11:00:50
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answered by Charley 4
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Being murdered would be worse. I've lost loved ones so I know how incredibly painful it is. Getting raped would be traumatizing but I think I'm strong enough and have enough support that I could work through it and heal.
2007-06-07 18:16:20
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answered by DawnDavenport 7
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To be murdered would be worse for me because once you are dead, you stay dead. On the other hand, while rape would certainly be heinous, at least you are alive and can seek treatment and counseling for the traumatic experience.
2007-06-13 03:26:05
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answered by Gasbag 6
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Raped because if I were murdered I would then be living in Heaven and well once you get there you have no worries no pains and you are happy for eternity.
2007-06-07 14:47:06
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answer #8
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answered by Ladybugs77 6
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Being raped... you have to live with the trauma of that for the rest of your life... at least if you are murdered, you're not suffering or continually re-living trauma.
2007-06-07 12:50:59
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answered by simply_sarah_1981 2
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For my family's sake, raped. They never needed to find out.
For my own sake, murdered. I would not have had to live with it that way.
2007-06-14 08:39:33
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answer #10
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answered by mikalina 4
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Murder. Rape is recoverable and if not, you have the choice to kill yourself. murder-no choice, end of life...forever. I can still come home to kiss my baby girl after being raped. murder, we'd never meet again.
2007-06-12 17:55:21
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answered by America scarica 3
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