My younger brother wears thongs and gstring is this normal, does this mean he is gay, are there anyother guys around 15 that wear them? What should I do about this?
2007-06-07 11:16:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
he wears them as everyday underwear but also has boxers, he switches between the two dependin on the day
2007-06-07 11:45:39 · update #1
Leave him alone. I'm a guy & I wear thongs and I don’t think much about it. If people have very little to do or are so insecure about their sexuality, then that’s their business. In addition, women have & continue to break the double standards than have been imposed on them by men & it’s time that us men do the same. If a lot of women wear thongs and find them very comfortable, why can’t men?
I don’t wear thongs because of their looks or because I care about what people in general, fashion designers, & fashion critics think that is “in” or “out.“ In fact, I agree with women when they say that boxers briefs are the best looking underwear for men & that thongs look ugly on MOST (not all) men. Most men don’t have the nice butt shape to look good in thongs. But since I wear all of my underwear under my pants or shorts & I don’t walk around in my underwear, especially in public, I pick my underwear based on comfort & not what’s fashionable, masculine or feminine.
I wear thongs because of their unmatched support & because I personally think that thongs are the most comfortable type of underwear you can wear. Thongs give me the best support, in particular during sport activities, almost as if I was wearing a jock strap but a WHOLE LOT more comfortable. Once you have picked the right size, style, & material & you’ve worn them for a little while, they feel so comfortable that you hardly even feel, if at all.
I don't mean to discuss anyone, but for me, a huge reason why I love them so much is because they help prevent what I call “SBS” (Sticky Balls Syndrome), which is the sticky feeling that comes from your sweaty scrotum touching your inner thighs. I think that that sticky sensation is VERY uncomfortable! With the right thongs, you don't suffer from SBS. I don't know how most guys can live with SBS. I guess they don’t know any better. I didn’t & I would still be in the dark it if wasn’t for an ex-girlfriend who worked at Frederick’s of Hollywood. She literally made me wear them for a couple of weeks to try them out; but that‘s a different story. All I can say is that once you go with no SBS for a while, you never want to go back to it.
Some people feel that men shouldn't wear thongs, but I don't see why. People put too much importance on underwear. I guess that some people are homophobic & think that men who wear thongs are gay or feminine, as if the type of underwear you wear makes you more or less of a man. Dhaaa! I don’t suffer from homophobia & I’m VERY secured about my masculinity & sexuality to worry about little stuff like that.
Ironically, there's a western gay bar by my home, you should see some of the guys that go in & out of that place. Some look gay (totally feminine), some look like the average guy walking down the street, and quite a few look super, and I mean SUPER DUPER macho tough guys wearing western outfits. I’m not talking about some skinny guys, I’m talking about some well build guys. The build that you’d expect on a football player, construction worker, or cop. They look totally, 100%, MANLY MEN…and yet, they are gay! Clothes, in particular underwear, DO NOT make or break a man!
Since it seems that there’s quite a bit of ignorance & insecurity in here. I want to let those insecure people in on a secret. Pssst, come a bit closer…you (if you are a man) or your boyfriend or husband, is not going to turn gay by wearing a thong. For those of you who don’t know what a gay, lesbian, or homosexual really is, is a person who likes to be sexuality & emotionally involved with people of his/her OWN gender. In other words, your underwear won’t turn you or make you gay, bi or straight. It would be like saying that all gay men wear thongs & that they could change their sexual preference or be less gay just by wearing manly underwear such as boxers. It’s ignorant to think that your underwear defines who your are sexually. So let the sexually ignorant & insecure people worry about junk like that.
2007-06-11 13:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
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My younger brother wears thongs and gstring is this normal, does this mean he is gay, are there anyother guys around 15 that wear them? What should I do about this?
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im 21 year old girl i wear g strings all the time on beaches . my first time wearing a g string was on a nude beach i was 17 i was with my collage friends me and most of my friends were top less they're were some teen boys they're what we hung with. Most of them some had G strings on in some had nothing on but there birthday suit it was a blast ya that's cool wearing a g string on a beach if you are a teen boy. it is only not cool if you are a pre teen or child under 14 ok
2016-03-22 16:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not mean that he is gay. Maybe he likes them because they are comfortable. That's why i wear them! I've been wearing thongs occasionally since I was about 10 or so. I'm 19 now and wear thongs as everyday underwear. If you want to do something ask him if he wants you to take him shopping so he can get some more.
2007-06-12 16:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
no one has wondered how you were able to find out what he wears? and even when he wears those thongs? why are you so interested in his underwears?
second, all those female prudes, they have all been brainwashed for sure; since when did thong become a gay thing? not so long ago, it would be lesbian if women wear pants or shorts, how many of those women who answered this question wear skirts only?
thongs have no sexual oritentation, only people have a sexual preference. whatever he likes is his business, why do you have to care? And if he is gay, you can't change him; and if he is not gay, aren't you just too worried?
leave him alone, wearing a thong is a crime, maybe you are just a prude yourself
2007-06-11 17:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy dude 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There isn't a man on this planet that looks good in a thong or g-string. Definitely wrong for a 15 year old.
2007-06-09 17:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Umm, that's really weird. I don't believe that's normal. It doesn't neccessarily means he's gay, though. It could just mean he wants to try something new or he's sexually active. He could just find the thongs sexy. What do your parents say about it? Maybe you should talk 2 them about it first. Or you could simply ask your brother why he wears them or why he is so interested in them. But when and if you ask him don't make such a big deal out of it.
2007-06-14 16:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Annie88 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yea leave your bro alone what he wears is his business plus if gives him the support and his friends don't tease him. Just love him Gay or straight. He probably prefers the support then anything else.
2014-04-05 22:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by Paul O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it just in the bedroom when he is getting "intimate" with his girlfriend, it's ok, because a lot of girls like it.
However, if he wears thongs/g-strings like regular boxers or briefs, I think that is a little awkward. But, maybe it is just me?
2007-06-07 11:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋