everyone i meet they end up not likeing me. they like me at first but after 2 days they start to not like me. im shy but what is it that you hate about someone.
2007-06-07 11:14:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 20 and all my life is been like this
2007-06-07 11:18:17 · update #1
Shyness seldom has anything to do with it. Try checking onyour own behavior what you say and do. Second off they can't possibly hate you when they don't know you. Hate is a very strong word and you should be careful how you use it.
2007-06-07 11:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be assuming too much. If you are a loner (because you want to be most of the time like myself) then you will see deeper traits that most people normally do not pick up on. This is an advantage at times but often it is a disadvantage because we tend to act too quickly or conclude too quickly that this person has a problem with me. The reality is is that we all do minor things that irritate others all the time, but they are soon forgotten.
It is best to be yourself and not try so hard to impress others. Be happy about who you are as long as you are not hurting someone else. Another thing that has helped me is to constantly remember to shut the F**k up and LISTEN and LEARN about others. People love to talk about themselves. Let them. Also form an actual desire for learning and sharing with others, you will find that the world will open up for you. It is often times that when we do things for others we are actually (unknowingly) doing something for ourselves.
2007-06-07 18:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by lanthus1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked anyone who actually knows you this question? Do you gossip? Do you have wierd habits? How's your hygiene? Maybe you talk about yourself all of the time??? You should really find out what is going on as you have a lot of life to live yet! I wish you the best!
2007-06-07 18:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by BLM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That might all be in your mind. Hard to hate someone after just meeting them. If they don't sound enthusiastic right away....doesn't mean they hate you. Gotta give people some time to get to know you.
2007-06-07 18:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Marky Marc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy too, but that doesn't make people hate me. Are you nice to people? Always be polite to people and treat them how you would like others to treat you. They should like you then.
2007-06-07 18:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by deppi420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you being yourself or trying to be something that you are not? I have a hard time being around people that are always acting.
BTW, do people actually tell you that they hate you?
2007-06-07 18:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by ecutepup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they find it hard to communicate with u and being shy maybe u arent much fun to be around.
2007-06-07 19:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate someone that copies me and acts concieted like they're the best. People who think they're 'shy' and not smart, even though they are, are acting so concieted.
2007-06-07 18:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by cat_heros@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my friend do some changes to yourself sometimes we have to change because we cant change the world and the others!
2007-06-07 18:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just your personality, or maybe your looking for friends in the wrong places.
2007-06-07 18:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by tone22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋