Could it be something more than a crush?
What if one of the people is committed or married, does that make it wrong?
Even if they'd never meet in real life?
2007-06-07 11:05:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Someone must be a quite skilled liar will they for 800 or more questions and answers long pretend to be someone they are not. the person usually will say something reveiling. Have you ever read all the answers of one person one after another? you get to know them. maybe not 100% but most people here are honest ones. Every one pretends to be a tiny bit better than reality and that is healthy. that makes it fun to try to be your best for another... to try to meet interesting people. And if I decide to meet someone,and they are not the one in the picture they are gone immediately and permanetly. Sure you can get hurt but that is just as true for your next door neighbour. what is the difference in the risk of trying to love someone..? none. sure you have to be careful, but when I communicate with someone intensely for months then I do not believe I can be far off reality with liking or not liking someone. knowing if you can be friends or not. that intuiton is always there. There is one way to get a distorted view on that and that is having hope too much. if you hope for you prince in shining arnour too much, the armour will be rusted or absent....
As for being committed. I believe strongly in the fact that the committed one has to solve that for themselves. I am single and will try my hardest for a guy I like, even if he is committed. A happilly married guy immediately says stop right here I am not looking. The not happily married guy, when honest, tells you , or tries to tell you what he struggles with. and that is the decider. I will try to not trod boundaries I am not supposed to, I do not intend to hurt anyone, but my happiness is important too. If I think I can make a unhappy guy happy, I will. I certainly will.
Also the boundaries, I ask for them. if I feel I don't know them and someone will set them. it works if you think about it consiously and keep to not hurting people. Conclusion: yes, it certainly does exest, because every single avatar is a human being with all his or her complexities and feelings. Each and every one. that means the feelings are real.
Right and wrong, you work at them and re adjust when nessesary.
pardon the rediculously long reply........
2007-06-07 11:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is more than a crush at first and it became cyber-love and soon it leads to real love that not just involved the cyber person, it has involved the real person behind the avatar. Cyber love always come with a warning but why people still going for it? It's their heart tells them to. They are human who have feelings and not even a single person in this world could control this feeling that God had planted in them.
Everyone is a sinner in certain way. So do I.
I don't have good answer for this question and all I know is I love you too much for me to think what is right and what is wrong. This is LOVE.
2007-06-08 02:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by † Iríšh † 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
There is....
Its not really wrong unless you take further action, which in turn could hurt your "real" partners, or loves.
I don't think its Love as in the usual way, but maybe as you say, more of a crush.
What I find so so so refreshing is that many of us are making friends, so be it over cyberspace, still the same making friends which I believe are sincere, without the discrimination of appearance. Its all based on our true feelings and who we truly are as people.
I think its wonderful.
You and Irish will make a wonderful couple in cyber space love. lol
Shes a beautiful lady, and I don't mean by her Avatar
2007-06-08 01:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by ♥jg spunk♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think cyber love is more like a crush. Not real love. You most likely not have that person to be with you at all times. You cant always be sure if that person you are in love with is realy that picture. They could be completely different. Or evene worse a rapeist or child molester...I would actually have my love within the same state or at least the same country.
2007-06-07 18:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, there sure is. I used to see it all the time, and during this week on Answers I have seen it a lot. So...Cyberlove is still alive and well.
As far as commitment is concerned. I think a lot of people see this place as a form of escape, and in that they find what they are missing in their normal lives through other people on here.
As far as the morality of it? That's perplexing.
And yes, some meet in real life. I met someone from a chat room once. It didn't work out for me, but it probably has for others.
2007-06-07 18:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
no, there is no such thing as a cyber love. it can be cyber friendship, but what later on develops from it, it's LOVE, REAL one! My love and I are beyond a cyber friendship, Internet is just a mean of communication, but he means everything to me in my real life. All my love, all my thoughts, all my wishes, all my dreams, my entire being... all, simply all I can think of is dedicated to him. We've never met face to face, we live in two different continents, still, he is more real to me than anything else around me. And he is the one I hold by the hand in the street, he is the one I return home to, he is the one I go to sleep with, he is the one I share my life with!
2007-06-08 03:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Pavic 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I agree totally with Halozin (sorry couldn't find the right o)...people do use it as a form of escape from the real world they live in, as to whether it's morally right, we could discuss that for a long time and still not have the right answer, only opinions.
2007-06-07 18:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Citizen Mac 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...If one of the people is committed or married, I would think it was wrong. You're still devoting yourself to someone other than your partner.
And I mean, anything's possible with people.
There are some that wouldn't even consider cyber dating, and there are others.
To each his own.
2007-06-07 18:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah!it's more than a crush!!it's fantastic!you meet sby that is just like you!!you find out info about him/her,see if you have the same likes/dislikes,and you have your greatest person !of course,some people may lie and not appear to be who they really are!but that can happen even if when you see sby with your eyes!GO FOR IT!!!
[but beware,you can be heartbroken just the same!!]
2007-06-07 18:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People are people. Dont really matter where you meet them. Yes many have met online and will continue and yes fall in love aswell.
2007-06-07 19:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋