Ive been dateing my girlfriend for about two years now, and I love her with all my heart. we havent taken the next step because she was going through a long and drawn out divorce and it just was finalized. we have 4 kids 3 from her marriage and 1 together I just got a promotion to relocate and she is still in school but they also have joint custody. she told me that she would go back to court and relocate but i dont know if that will happen. what should i do. and we dont spend a whole lot of time together but everything is good between us I just wish I had more of her time alone with us, should i let her go or stay with her
2007-06-07 10:50:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well it seens to me that you truly love this woman. I feel like you should stay with her but sometimes being separted from someone can the best thing .give it time see what the court's say.
2007-06-07 10:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by crazyloving 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you really care for her but, you should go ahead and move. Ask her to come but give her time to work out her personal matters with the custody and then relocate with you.
The separation time will also make the relationship stronger, just don't rush things right now with her divorce just being finalized.
good luck
2007-06-07 10:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by bigred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do love her and she does love you, your love will stand the test of time. Give the time that she needs, if you just push her too much, she will end up blaming you for whatever bad result she can get and this would be terrible for you both. Good luck, do not let her go, just support her.
2007-06-07 10:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with her. You have a kid and you love her. Try to see if she can relocate with you.
2007-06-07 10:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves you and you love her and you have a child together and you dont know whether or not to stay with her and near your child? so youre contemplating leaving them altogether...did I understand that correctly? chump!
2007-06-07 10:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋