2007-06-07 10:24:26 · 53 answers · asked by × 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's called SELF esteem. How can something someone else says affect you if you didn't already feel this was true? If you didn't believe it, you would dismiss the idea. No one can affect your SELF esteem but yourSELF.
2007-06-07 10:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-06-07 10:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by fordperfect5 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That only happens to people with low self esteem
2007-06-07 10:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Dirk Diggler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we don't see whats wrong, you just said that "everyythings ok I guess"., which means your doubting or don't want to see that your boyfriend is probably part of the problem. Maybe when you guys argue he chooses his words wrongly and little by little he keeps putting you down. I don't know if he calls you names or never says sorry or doesn't say words to boost your confidence or says he loves you as often, I recommend you check for that and also another question is does he says things about oher girls like "oh she's fine" or stuff like that if front of you. Just somethings to make you think about..Good Luck!
2016-05-19 03:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by nola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I got older my confidence grew. I did struggle for many years though, and I'm quite sure my low esteem had to do with my childhood. Believe in yourself and love your self completely. Then no one can ruffle your feathers.
2007-06-07 10:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by tropical 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my boyfriend of almost a year broke up with me things were going well we were getting serious and he said it was over with no explanation 3 days later he was going out with my friend that i was training at work ! the lowest point in my life was when i was sat in the bath the day after i found out curled up in a ball sobbing my eyes out wishing to what ever GOD was in the heavens he would take me back! the next day i sore to myself i would never be that pathetic again. the important thing is taking a hit and getting back up after all i think it makes you stronger in the end . all three of us are friends now n they have jut broke up i had to summon all my inner strength not to say I TOLD YOU SO !!! lol poor girl.
2007-06-07 10:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a child. It's unfortunate that simple words can affect people so negatively & stay with them for so long. To this day anytime I am around a certain person I still remember that thing they said to hurt me as a child.
2007-06-07 10:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Fathiya 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was in Jr High and High School yes but now a days I just ignore them. Not worth my time or effort.
2007-06-07 12:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeatedly, especially as a kid. Now it has to be really hurtful to effect my self esteem.
2007-06-07 10:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Firespider 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes but im starting to learn that not everyone is going to like me or be happy with me all the time and that i only need to make myself happy. Youre not going to please everyone. Ive also learned to let what people say not affect me.
2007-06-07 10:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥TinaThat...ME♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋