What was the reason you cheated on your spouse? Could have there been anything that your spouse could have done to keep you from cheating on them? Be specific
2007-06-07 09:11:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I didn't physically cheap but he still thinks I did.. Just on the computer too much. Well, people just grow apart. It happens when in my case, he was not in the home and was away alot at months at a time. You get lonely..and just want someone to talk to no matter what the conversation is about. Not being social because you are in a very small town with no friends and family make you feel isolated and thats where the computer comes into play. Now adays, the computer makes up for lack of in anyones life since anything and everything now adays can be done at the computer. Could he of change it....Yes, being there and payng attention to me and his family would of made the workd of deference.
2007-06-07 09:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone IS married or WAS married does NOT mean that they are cheating or have cheated. Your question is asked with the understanding that ALL married or previously married people cheat. I AM married and do NOT cheat on my old lady. FLIRT yes, CHEAT NO.
2007-06-07 16:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, he was pretty cool when we first started dating, then when he got his masters degree he thought he knew everything and when you asked a question it was long and drawn out. He was crappy in bed, any time we went somewhere it was all planned out down to the hotel we were going to stop at along the way...No there wasn't anything he could have done because I had already fallen out of love with him and I didn't care anymore...I later told him I was sorry for cheating so I'm not completely terrible...
2007-06-07 16:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never cheated the whole 19 yrs. Heard rumors of him cheating after the first MONTH of marriage (ex-girl called, friends saw him at her house, etc.). Finally had proof 7 years into the marriage, then again at 10 yrs (w/his 400 lb cousin -- YUCK).
Marriage is WORK. Just like @ ur 9 to 5, you have to apply EFFORT, DETERMINATION, LOYALTY, CONSISTENCY, GOOD ATTENDANCE (be there in body, mind & spirit). You have to be committed and ready for good and bad times -- know that your partner is your FRIEND -- not your enemy!
If my ex applied as much time and effort as he did with hanging out w/friends and family and other extra-curricular activities -- then we probably would still be married.
2007-06-07 16:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by kimmie831 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated
2007-06-07 16:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop drinking and act like an adult. He's been drinking for over 14 years now and I don't see that part changing. After he's had a few, he wants alittle something, and that's the last thing I want is a drunk to be touching me. When he's drinking, he's not the man I fell in love with.
2007-06-07 16:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by groovytarheel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In the 44 years that we have been married I have never cheated on my wife nor she on me.
2007-06-07 16:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by ><>JHF<>< 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I left before I cheated unless you count kissing.....Reason: he was a cold unaffectionate unless for sex ba**tard and I was lonely....now I am alone but still better than being married and lonely......if he would of treated me more like a companion and actually act like he cared and less like the maid maybe things would of been different.....
2007-06-07 16:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I never cheated. He did! I found out a long time later !!!
2007-06-07 16:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by eizus28 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I left him before I even thought about cheating....
2007-06-07 16:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Saw Dust♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋