ok everytime I'm trying to have sex( i'm a virgin)but I'm old enough and I'm ready. Anyways...everytime I try to and my fiancee is trying to push it in, I feel this pain running from my navel into my foot.And I can't help it but I just give up trying.What's prob?
2007-06-07 07:59:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You are probably nervous and tensing up muscles that, in turn, impact on nerve transmission. Try to increase your foreplay until you are truly relaxed and comfortable and aroused. You also might want to try some lubricant, like KY, to help with the insertion. Above all, make sure you are truly mentally ready.
2007-06-07 08:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by jurydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember that you are a virgin. The first few times it will hurt and at times you will bleed. The best thing for you to do is make sure that you are relaxed and really enjoying yourself. if you are concentrating on the pain then you make yourself tense which will make it even harder. I suggest talking to your fiancee so you can ask him to do some foreplay beforehand and to go easy with you. If he tries to be rough from the start that totally kills the mood. Also, if after I say 5-10 times you still have plain, i suggest seeing a doctor. Good luck and have fun.
2007-06-07 15:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by priceless_beauty69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its gonna hurt the first time it happens so just give this person of the opposite sex what he or she wants But OK i had a child when i was 16 it was my first time having sex but i got pregnant look dont b scared just let His or Her Magic work
2007-06-07 15:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm could be a couple of things. I know if my siatic nerve is pinched it can cause some strange sensations during sex which aren't really comfortable.....
suggestion get in and see your gyno make sure nothing is wrong. second, see a chiropractor, something may be out of place in your spine which may be causing pain.
2007-06-07 15:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by lovelyinkedlady0613 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a virgin so it will still hurt but tell him to push harderit will go in, but you will get use to the pain after you keep having sex. tell he to finger you to see if that works
2007-06-07 15:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by shagurl s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hymen is still intact and your man is entering you the pain is from the hymen being torn. This will pass as soon he enters all the way
2007-06-07 15:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had a checkup with a Gynocologist before? If not you should have one. They can help you a lot.
2007-06-07 15:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by tsoto_soto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are nervous and maybe you need to relax or see a doctor.
2007-06-07 15:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Erma S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a gynecologist.....it could be nothing but better to be safe than sorry!
2007-06-07 15:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by Txfroggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him stick his finger in ur butt then when u are squirming tell him to jam it in ur box
2007-06-07 15:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by Scott P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋