See, me and my friend were having a fight and he thinks that i am holding a grudge because i am mad at him for one day. Do you think it is a grudge or do you think i am just mad?
2007-06-07 06:58:20 · 6 answers · asked by Waz Up? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not at all. A grudge is something that is remembered and thought about often over weeks, months, and even years. If you were mad for a day....you were mad for a day. That is not a grudge.
2007-06-07 07:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you have a grudge means you have not forgiven a person for whatever hurt they cause you and you keep bringing it up. If he claims that you still hold a grudge over a matter, ask him why he felt that way and ask yourself if you are still mad at him. Sometimes when we are mad at someone, it shows.
2007-06-07 07:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by SG GAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a grudge unless it lasts a long period of time. One day is just taking the time to get over it. Tell him to give you time.
2007-06-07 07:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by shanna709 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"holding a grudge" usually means you just won't ever let something go when you've been hurt, or insulted, or angry. I don't think one day of being angry counts as holding a grudge.
2007-06-07 07:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does that country song go...
"I just want to be mad for a while." Find it and play it for him.
2007-06-07 07:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by avengress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate,but then you want revenge
2007-06-07 07:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋