i broke up with him bc there were rumors that he was cheating on me that were proved untrue, my friend had been secretly crushing on him when i was dating him then when we broke up she pounced! he asked me out agen after i had already brokeup with him and then my friend asked him out not knowing he had just asked me back out a few days earlier, and now they are dating and theyve never even had a face to face conversation, i go to church with him and we still flirt.. alot.. but i always feel guilty about it bc hes dating my BEST FRIEND! i feel so horrible and stupid i wish i had never broken up with him, if i hadnt we would still be together! i havent even told my friend i still like him.. should i? and should i tell him.? what am i ever going to do to get him back? i truly think i love him but, im not sure if he feels the same way!!! please please help me im so confused, i see no point of living. he was what i looked forward to, now i have nothing to look forward to.. please help me!!!
2007-06-07 06:42:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to him...
2007-06-07 06:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by sweetera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, lets get this straight, other people said he was cheating not your friend right? ok, just wanted to make that clear. Ok, ya bummer about your friend flirting it on with him. I mean geez, you drop him at the moment that someone spreads a rumor on him and you dont even take his word for it. By all means, your friend should be as stable as you, being a friend and all. Sorry, sounds like you got what you deserved. But the good news for you is, it sounds like he's going to stick around and circle back to you anyways... Consider yourself lucky.
P.S. Cut the ohhh I'm on the verge of suicide! You did this to yourself. Take account for what you did, look in the mirror see how pathetic you are being and snap out of it! Go get him if you want him that bad! Better be thinking of 100 different ways to show him how sorry you are...
2007-06-07 06:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by avengress 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he cheated once, he'll cheat again. As for your so called best friend. From my experience your best friend is the first one to screw you ever. She had her eyes on him, while you were dating the looser to begin with. I suggest you find a couple new people to associate with, and get these two losers out of your life.
2007-06-07 07:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my.... I would stop thinking about how you feel about him and start asking why your best friend put you through this .... Not much of a friend if you ask me. Friends dont do that to friends, they just don't, at least not a BESTFRIEND. Good Luck
2007-06-07 06:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he still likes you and you still like him and then you need to tell him and you best friend cause your friend may not relize that you still like him i mean i dont know how old you are but i mean dont get to caught up in it i mean life goes on i mean now if it was a marriage then i could totally understand but like anyway just dont get mad at your friend cause she cant help her feelings but i mean if he still likes you and you still him then dont like push ur friend out of the way and get him back just let it take its course... hope i helped...GOD BLESS!!! =) ><>
2007-06-07 06:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best Friend my foot.....she isn't a friend.....there is the unspoken rule about dating friends ex's........They are off limits.....unless you get married.....
She probably told you those rumors herself.
2007-06-07 06:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋