Okay school just got out yesterday 6/6/07 and i went to a end of the year party that my friend invited me to. When i was there i heard about another party that another girl was hosting that i didn't get invited to. Everyone else at the party was going to this party tommorow and wanted to know why i couldn't go. So i got pissed off. So the problem is i'm having a party in four days should i invite her (be Nice) or by a total *** and not invite and invite everyone else.
P.S. Im fine with either im leaning more to the *** side right now just wanted someone elses input.
2007-06-07 05:39:54 · 22 answers · asked by lsu6232 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would ask her why she didn't invite you ,, because if she has a problem with you ,, then she might not come to your party if you invite her anyway .. or she may come to start trouble.. just be the bigger person and try to resolve the issue first.
2007-06-07 05:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by DON'T ARGUE W/ FOOLS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill her with kindness - invite her to your party - which will be ever so much more fun than some shindig she could pull off. And be terribly gracious to her - as if nothing ever happened.
Then, when there's a crowd around and everyone is having just a grand old time, you could mention to her - accidentally on purpose - and loudly of course (you're talking over the DJ) - that you hadn't been invited to her party and what a mean, self-centered person she is and how nice you are - since you made sure she was invited to yours. Cause a big scene and embarrass all your other friends who were invited.
Or you could just let the whole thing blow over, have your party and just have a good time. Do invite the crum, however, maybe she'll have enough class to stay home.
2007-06-07 05:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't jump to any conclusions. It could very easily be that she simply forgot, or, she just assumed you would come to her party. Planning a party can be a lot of work, perhaps everyone was coming up to her and she just never got around to everyone else.
Revenge is never the answer, it may bring you a since of satisfaction, but it will be short lived. It will then turn into animosity towards each other and whatever friendship there was will be gone forever.
I would invite her with a smile. Show her what being a 'good hostess' is. If it was an accident then all can be forgiven, if she really doesn't like you then she most likely won't come, but even in that case, YOU still look good to all your other friends.
In the Bible is says a soft answer turns away wrath. Be kind to her and if she turns away then at least you tried and it goes a long way to show you as one of good character!
2007-06-14 16:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Domino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she actually likes you. Try to be normal and invite her to your party. She may feel embarressed about the whole thing, then maybe apologizesto you. If not, then just forget about the whole thing. Not being invited to a party won't kill somebody, so try to get over with it. Be a sport!
2007-06-07 06:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jay Vern 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends has just done that to me. Everyone is talking about going to her party and she has just left me out, she also has the rudeness to keep coming up and chatting to me. She has even invited people she doesn't like. I think you shouldn't invite her and let her feel what it is like.
2007-06-07 05:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should confront her about why she didn't invite you. If she gives a good reason then invite her. If she didn't then say " Well...I am sorry but I can't invite you OR Well then don't bother coming to my party" And leave.
Good Luck!
-Brendan
2007-06-14 21:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by SuP3RmAn67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO what about you not being invited to the party. Get over it. You don't have to treat people that way. Go ahead and invite your friend. It won't kill you!!
2007-06-07 05:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Alisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u ever find out why u wernt invited if i were u i would be a total *** and invite her even tho u didnt get to her party.
2007-06-14 18:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't invite you, she couldn't be a good friend. If she isn't a good friend, why bother...just invite her, what difference does it make. You are above all this.
If she is a good friend, ask her why you didn't get invited. Clear out misunderstandings, if any, one on one.
2007-06-07 06:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by VKM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her; see if she comes. Take the high road. And it might have been an accident that you got left out, or it might be her folks set limits. Who knows?
2007-06-07 05:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋