this boy is calling me names .. ?

Question

this boy in my school keeps pickingon me he picks on everyone but i dont like it he was picking on my friends hair because she got a green ighlight put in and her 2nd name is boagey. then i laughed and he went i can pick on you too you have a big nose ... :| ?

Answer 1

Ignore him. If no one paid any attention to him, he would stop. He is only trying to get attention and make himself look good. Who cares what he says? Ignore him, and he'll soon ignore you.

Answer 2

Do you actually like this guy or is he really a jerk? If he's just being a jerk and you really don't want to be teased, you'll need to stand your ground. If he finds a 'sore point' and knows he can cause you to be angry by a particular comment, he'll never let up. Try practicing the 'poker face' when he saids something about your nose (if that's a sensitive point), don't show a reaction, brace yourself instead and say something like....that is so funny, did someone e-mail you that or did you think of it on your own, wow....I'm impressed, perhaps we're all wrong and you have a brain cell left after all, I wondered why no one wanted to go out with you, etc. Be unmerciful in your counterattacks and he'll find an easier mark. It'll be good training for the real world later on. People push and you have to learn how to push back.

Answer 3

Okay - this guy has learned that he can get attention by abusing other people. If you don't react (or act bored), then he doesn't get his "payoff."

When he says something nasty, you don't react. He's probably pointing out obvious stuff, anyway (you probably know your friend has green highlights and your nose is on the large size, and that guy is overweight, and... none of this is news).

This is where a very useful human trait comes into play. Dignity. Not letting yourself get caught up in anything nasty/rude/scummy. Not letting yourself become part of it by reacting, or lby aughing at someone else's expense.So no fair laughing if the joke is on someone else. He says something bad, you... ignore it.

He says something else bad, you... ignore it. You are allowed to look at him, coolly, and shrug. What you're saying, without words, is "Yes? What's your point?" Remember - he's not saying anything you don't already know. If pressed, you look sad (for him), murmur, "Mmm. How original." Then you change the subject.

It make take a while, but he'll learn that you aren't a good target - you don't react. He'll lose interest in teasing you, because it won't pay to do so.

Answer 4

i was in the same situation once, but not making fun of those particular things, people told me its because he liked me, ya well thats not it! people are just to afraid to be honest and tell you that he thinks ur a b**** probably, but as long as you have not done anything yet heres how ull take action against that jackass! :

1st try 2 ignore it
2nd if # 1 doesnt work then pull a prank (you can never go wrong with laxotives in a drink ;) )
3rd this 1 sounds corny but tell an adult at school a teacher you trust (thats what i had to do) get a group of frends and tell a teacher itll be over after that

good luck and i hope i could help

Answer 5

Hes just immature most boys that pick on you actually like u its just a very stupid way of showing it you just have to ignore what he said and tell him to grow up and get a life dont let him get to you.

Answer 6

just ignore the people like that and don't even say them any Bad word cus when they pick u if u got mad they'll pick on u more cus u know it's Fun when someone get mad......so stop getting mad and let them do just ignore them. After they see u don't get mad when they make u Fun they'll stop making Fun @ u.

"That wt my teacher told me and it's really work for me"

Answer 7

Boys like these are really terrified from inside.He is just an scared bully.Beleive me, I also acted like this boy in school days,then i realized what i had done.
Do not be scared of him, but pity his case.

Answer 8

Don't listen to him.
He's a jerk who thinks he's all that, which he isn't.
If people laugh or show hurt feelings, then that gives him attention, which is exactly what he wants.
Give him no attention, and he will eventually get tired of trying.

Answer 9

Yep, he's trying to get a rise out of you. If you show him that you don't care about what he says, he's eventually going to feel bored or try some other antic to get you worked up.

Answer 10

Tell him you dont talk to smelly people, then when ever he tries to pick on you ignor him. If he asks why you arnt saying anything go EWWWWW and run, mwahahahah....gd times..

But seriosuly, just ignor it.