I and my girlfriend had sex last month(9/6). She is 18. Sex is not getting periods for the past 60 days. She says her periods are generally irregular, but not as irregular as now.We want to avoid pregnancy. Till when is it safe to abort with out any signs. Is there any cure taking tablets. Suggest any other safe method.
2007-06-06 21:16:56 · 19 answers · asked by om 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I would to a home pregnancy test, also make a docs appt either way, if she is pregnant you will need to figure that one out. If not she needs to get on birth control, this will also regulate her periods, if affording the doc or birth control is an issue then sorry you shouldn't be having sex. babies cost much more than birth control. check to see if they have local clinic that will administer
the test and help you get free condoms and birth control. don't count on either one of them alone. hopefully shes not preg. good luck...
2007-06-07 00:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by tatsmom4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First:
If you want to prevent pregnancy, you should both be using some form of birth control.
Condoms, birth control, contraceptive foam etc...
Secondly:
Abortions aren't usually performed past 12wks of the first trimester.
Thirdly:
There is a pill women can take that will induce this kind of thing, but it HAS to be prescribed by the Doctor. It is also a lot worse then just going in for surgery.
Go to a physician and have a pregnancy test performed. Yes some women do experience irregular periods, but this should still be looked at regardless.
Let's hope she is not pregnant in this case. Also be sure to bring up any concerns/worries with your Doctor. They can provide you with the best advice.
Please be responsible for your actions on this end. You should not be having unsafe sex if you do NOT want children, and abortion is NEVER a form of birth control.
2007-06-06 22:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by mroof! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well..if you in the uk you can abort up to week 24 but there is NO way i would advise you to do that - i have just had a baby and now i know how quickly the fetus developes and the heart beats start at somewhere round the 6th week and by the 12th week 'it' has fully developed physically so i would strongly advise a Dr's appt asap. As for signs im not sure what you mean but if your gf takes the termination pill it will not be a pleasent experience, it will be painful and she will be bleeding A LOT...you now what needs to come out...but if she does it surgically, she'll be in and out of the clinic the same day and she'll only have strong period like pains after...as for friends/family noticing..it is a big chance at least her mum will notice something but of course not sure.
Sorry for being so dramatic about my answer but having an abortion is no small deal and should absolutely not be seen as a method of conception..if it wasn't for me having had an abortion myself when i was 18 (condom 'sprung a leak') i would say take the concequense of your actions but please please please use a condom next time!! Good luck!!
2007-06-07 00:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by NewMama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, ya'all need to get the telephone book out and look up pregnancy in the yellow pages. There are some places that will give her a free pregnancy test. If she is pregnant they will talk to her about her options. If she's not pregnant, she needs to go to the local health department and get on some type of birth control and you need to wear a condom.
You should be wearing one every time you have sex. Not only will it prevent a pregnancy but it will help to assure that neither of you get a STD.
Avoiding pregnancy is the responsibility of both of you. Abortion is NOT a form of birth control.
2007-06-07 06:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Penny G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there are instant pregnancy tests that can be gotten from the pharmacy.
Beyond this, you ought to see a doctor.
And kindly exercise responsibility while having a good time. It is a crying shame to see a potential life wasted because you were careless... ~_~
Think it through before taking an abortion decision if your GP says that its too late for the simple stuff. Think of all alternatives and seek advice.
2007-06-06 21:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by shadow_cup 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let her get a blood test done at your GP. If it is positive look for abortion companies in your area via the Internet. You can only safely abort the foetus within the first 8 weeks of existence, thereafter the baby has a heartbeat and is considered as killing a baby (that is not in the law, but consciously).
2007-06-06 23:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy Bee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't kill a child just because you and your GF weren't smart enough between the both of you to buy a box of condoms. I suggest you take her in and get checked out, then contact an adoption agency so that child has a chance to have a life.
2007-06-07 03:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since your not well educated on safe sex or sex in general i would stop having it till you both are educated. next time USE PROTECTION. and you need to make an appt with a doctor for a blood test to find out if she is really pregnant. and then consider your options. ~~~good luck~~~ but i think you might be a daddy.
2007-06-06 23:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by rita512_2001112 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were dumb there is NO WAY to avoid it Sorry. Face the music You Had sex now you will ptobably have a kid. DO NOT ABORT!!! You can put the kid up for adoption. If you abort that is killing another person and it is WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-07 00:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the doctor..
take a test...a womens body always changes on the 10 day after intercourse...if she is pregnant..so if you had sex within 10 days and waited then took a test it will show yes or no..
good luck!
2007-06-06 21:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by # 1 wifey!!! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋