I have this online friend and we've grown attached with each other. He shares his problems with me and I help him out. I also share my probs with him and he helps me out. One time I got depressed, he actually stayed up very late just to brighten up my day. He said that he is always there for me when I need him. And he also hopes that we would meet someday. He is also longing for love as he is desperately finding for a GF. I told him that he is like a brother to me. Well, is he treating me like a sister or more than that? When I asked him if he has already found the girl, he simple said no. Or did he just lie? I'm starting to have feelings for him, btw. He is 4 years older than me. What do you think????? I need your opinion.
Ps. I'm 15 years old.......
2007-06-06 21:10:21 · 11 answers · asked by ♫♪meno_mosso♪♫ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By the way, I already know him better because he told me about his business and all. He is a very good man. The company where he works is proof to me that he isn't such a bad guy. So, I know some of his details.
2007-06-06 21:23:10 · update #1
And I have already seen him and he has already seen me because we send each other pics.
2007-06-06 21:27:08 · update #2
Why don't u ask him?
2007-06-06 21:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by mallika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he stayed up until very late just to brighten your day then he definitely feels something for you, believe me I'm a guy and i know. It must have been like a slap on the face when you told him that you see him like a brother.
Remember that you should be very careful, many people on the internet are not who they say they are even if he sent you a picture it doesn't mean that its really him. Also don't give him information about where you live or where you study.
good luck.
2007-06-07 05:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by john 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly online friends that you don't know might not be such a good idea,even if you can confide in this person you have no idea who he is, he could be a 45 year old man posing as a 19 year old boy and if i were you i wouldn't plan on meeting him anywhere alone, so if you do meet him please bring a friend or someone you can trust.
2007-06-15 03:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is kind of big, but I think theres a chance a really likes you. I don't think a guy would stay up and try to make a girl feel better, if he didn't have feelings for her, especially one he's never really met in person.
2007-06-13 16:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Billie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to want this answer. You do not need to meet this young man, without at least bringing one of your parents along. He may be interested in your romantically, but you are too young to seek a relationship with him. If your parents thought it was alright, and he wanted to come to your town and perhaps have dinner with you and your family, that would be nice. That way you wouldn't have to go behind your parents back, and we wouldn't be hearing about you on the news.
2007-06-14 19:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by tm1trish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't decide to be girlfriend and boyfriend on-line. I know now a days people are purchasing things on-line but a relationship is different. It's intangable so you got to see him in person. See how you feel being with him then you decide weither you are going to be couples or friends.
2007-06-14 15:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by brain beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really tell if you like him if you have already seen him. But if you liked him because of his personality maybe, you really like him.. He obviously likes you, because he said that. He was already flirting with you when he said hhe hasn't found his girl. But I tell you, in his age, he's very mature and all and you are soo young.
Try to make friends with other guys your age. Atleast you can understand them better because you know them better.
And of course, because your just friends online, you can't tell who he really is. Maybe he has a bad side, maybe not. You can't really tell if you don't know how he lives his life..
I tell you,before going with a relationship with a friend whom your chatting with, try to meet him.
2007-06-07 04:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say when you guys are just online. i am 16 and the guy i think likes me is 18 i can kind of guess if he likes me because we see each other almost everyday and he seems to flirt. Online guys are harder to figure out if they like you. you'll only know if you meet. becareful though he might not be who he says he is.
2007-06-07 04:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Finney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out! But you might want to go slowly just so you wont freack him out! Hope this helps! Bye!
2007-06-14 22:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! i think he may be lieing and i also think that he likes u so why don't u ask him if he likes anybody and tell him to tell u the truth and hope he likes u
good luck
2007-06-14 23:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by pretty_sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its Ok to continue to chat online but thats it. You are so young, your 15 and hes 19, its nice that you help each other but I think you should wait awhile. Please be careful!!!!!!
2007-06-14 00:46:01 · answer #11 · answered by paul s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋