How's it feasible for a guy who claims to love women live with 3 gay guys and allow one of the gay guys to touch all over him when they are alone? He has straight porn scattered about, but I'm not convinced. He doesn't date girls because he claims to be shy. This guy is 30, good looking, hot body, and celibate. He's determined to claim his heterosexuality. I'm not sure what he is, but straight he's not. Can a straight person be this comfortable with his sexuality and live with 3 gay guys, two of them being rather sexually assertive, regularly? Is this guy in denial, uncertained, or really secured with his sexuality as a heterosexual?
2007-06-06 19:30:40 · 21 answers · asked by Tony M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Eye Candy Baby, Eye Candy. And a flirt to boot.
Is he gay, only he knows he and he an't a tell'n
So what business is it of yours? You've scoped him out --"good looking, hot body and celibate" Seems to me he is looking for the right person. Male or Female.
And to answer the other twerp, double lives? I only wish. But there are some of us that are married because we wanted kids and back when I was growing up Gay was taboo. And adoption and surrgot mothers were not around. You were lucky if you got away with your life sometimes if found out. I had a number of lovers before my wife with whom we have 3 kids, 10 grand kids and 7 great grand kids. Today we are best friends and my first lover and I are also best friends
So I have the best of both worlds. A wonderful wife and a wonderful ex-lover. What more can a guy, gay or straight, ask for?
2007-06-06 20:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by .*. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Today, you are lucky to live in a time where you can be true yourself and express yourself, In 1978. I was 15, ready for action, everyone was closeted, as the guys seen it as dominance over another person, so they did would brag to their friends, living that type of life was a big lie, you don't have to wrestle, drink or beat each other up for dominance. I was always seen as the Fag in school, but I thought I knew what I wanted, it's not a matter if you can live around straight guys its why would you want to? I would spend all the time I could with other gay guys and discuss guys, health, careers and relationships, right now the are finding the benefit of same-sex classrooms and they have to have a lottery because of all the entrants in grade school. I always thought I would have enough time to get a lover, I am 45 without someone special in my life, take it from an old beat up queen.
2016-05-18 22:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to own a professional wrestling company. I am talking big arenas and coliseums, not the back yard kind of thing. There were more than a few gay wrestlers that let the women rub on their bodies. I know a guy who is a body builder who lives with two gay guys. He walks around in his boxers or a tight pair of workout shorts. Oh, we look. You would too if you saw him. But he is straight and loves his women folk. He laughs and says that he likes living with my friends because they aren't competition for him. He goes clubbing with them too. We all know they are going to be some hags up in the clubs. Anybody who has seen Will and Grace knows that. If the hag don't give her approval, how will know if you like him?
Most people who are truly accepting do not have any insecurities with people of the opposite orientation. You can take a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
2007-06-06 19:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Acquire a female secret agent and instruct her to find out if he's really str8?
Seriously, if he's str8 and so shy he doesn't date, THAT's the only problem with this situation! The nicest thing you could do for this guy is to connect him with one or more girls who would like him. Heck, ask his *housemates* to encourage any str8 girls they hang out with to get to know him.
Then: I'm really curious how you *know* he "allow[s] one of the gay guys to touch all over him when they are alone"! Does he brag about it, or is the gay guy confiding in you--and if so why?--or what? (Note: As many others have pointed out, this proves only that he appreciates the attention. In fact, letting a gay friend GIVE him sex would prove only that he's really horny and/or finds it easy to imagine that what he's feeling is coming from a girl.)
As for walking around "nearly naked," so what? Being shirtless and/or shoeless get WAY too much dissing in early 21st-c. America!
2007-06-07 04:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by georgetslc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the military I had to live with more than 3 gay people and I am straight. Wasn't no touching going on but it's still pretty much the same. Why are you worried about it anyway? You interested in him yourself? If he's straight that's his business. If he's gay that's his business. It won't change your income or health whether he is either now would it so don't worry about it.
2007-06-06 19:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've had two gay roommates and I never had a problem with them.... I'm str8 and pretty secure about my sexuality... I guess it didn't bother me because there was mutual respect between my roomies and me.... I usually ran around in my boxers and didn't have a problem... Not that I'm a model form either...so that might have helped....
2007-06-06 21:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by jhiieri 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's gay but embarassed to declare his sexual orientation. Some hyporitical gays have female partners as a cover up; in fact some have even wives and families and live double lives for expedience.
2007-06-06 19:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Leof 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you're taking it the wrong way(no pun intended) I'm straight and I don't feel uncomfortable being naked around other females..we've all got the same equipment..It's not his fault you prefer males..but if you'd like him to acknowledge that you dolike males and act accordingly by covering up..say so.
2007-06-06 19:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 gay guys with 1 str8 guy. Ever thought of having a gang bang with him? Three on one, *** to mouth, DP. Seems to look good when three guys are doing it to a chick, try it on him. Break his celibacy, see where this little deflowering session leads him to and the other three. Seriously you all got an invitation to good, hot live gay porn extranvaganza. Go for it.
2007-06-06 19:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i actually know people that are this secure with their sexuality and don't give a darn what other guys do to them as long as it doesn't violate anything they believe in. in fact, i HAVE a friend who lets me touch him (nothing sexual) all the while maintaining a girlfriend and his sexuality in check.
2007-06-06 20:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋