Center of attention?

Question

I have a friend..She thinks she looks okay..and she doesn't try to dress too showy or special..She acts normal..

However, each time she goes somewhere, she is mostly the center of attention..Like going to church or school..in class, she acts normal and somewhat quiet..she loves to laugh and smile though(of course, only on the right occasion just like everyone else)...her professors always find her the most interesting girl...The way they act toward her really shows it..They pay attention to her a lot (especially the male professors, which drive her insane sometimes)..female professors find her interesting also..like pay a lot of attention to her..

Why is she always at the center of attention? Please, explain to me why she is always at the center of attention..She wishes she isn't..She wants to be like other people who hardly being notice by anyone (i know that sounds strange)..

She doesn't want to be at the center of attention...

I hope I'm making some sense.

Answer 1

Some people have a magical "it" quality. Celebrities have it. Sometimes you just meet someone and are drawn to them. It could be that she's extremely attractive or that she's just very interesting. Tell her to make the best of it. It is a gift. A lot of people would love to be the centre of attention. She is obviously a beautiful person who is radiating a positive energy that attracts others to her so tell her to enjoy it.

Some people blend into the background. Others stand out. It is a gift to be exceptional. Tell her not to hide her light under a bushel. Let it shine. Be confident in who she is.

Answer 2

I vote for charisma which, as best as I can determine, largely comes from wisdom and self-knowledge. If you know yourself, you are not bound up by insecurities and fears, and therefore other people find pleasurable the subconscious microcues you emit a thousand times a minute (vibe). Even when irritated (by, say, an overly friendly male professor), she probably throws off a more pleasant, sanguine vibe than most of her contemporaries. She'll make a great salesperson if she chooses to whore out that ability.

Answer 3

Some people are just have a bright and friendly personality. She sounds beautiful on the inside, people like that. Someone who is enjoyable to be around is always a wanted by other people, doesn't matter on looks.

Answer 4

Sounds to me, liek the girl knows what she wants out of life, and is getting it. If someone gets in her way they are then bull dozed down, and she continues on. Sounds like she has fun, and is very outgoing and courageous. Nothing at all wrong with any of this. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.

Answer 5

People always tend to go for the unkonwn. They see she doesn't talk, but when they see her talk to someone else, they themselves wonder what she's about, especially if she's attractive. Nonetheless, if she's sure of what she wants, people can tell, and the followers will follow. If anything she should be flattered, now I myself would like to meet her, have her e-mail me.

Answer 6

She must be an Aries! lol- I am similar- must be the "playing hard to get" thing. Others want what is difficult to obtain. She must be great at adding value to herself- like a limited edition

Answer 7

I can only guess that she must be quite attractive.Does she have striking eyes? Large breasts? Great legs? Hair? Any distinguishing characteristic? Does she look like someone famous?

Answer 8

Maybe since everybody is labeling her as interesting it is leading to a perpetuating cycle that draws more people into it.

Answer 9

some people are like that: they have charisma, some kind of magnetism! it may be developed by deliberate efforts (personality development!), or, it may be natural! keep watching her, you will know yourself, what are the factors in mannerisms, behaviour etc. that make up the magnetism and charisma!

Answer 10

This is something that is just like this.People obviously like her for her and like to be around her and like what she say's does, etc. not in a sexual way or anything like that but just in general!